Fuck the Hot girl; Marry the Ugly.

Me and a few girls from work were discussing this. These girs were good-looking girls whom did modeing, took care of them self, small acting jobs, and such etc. These girls always have men hitting them, but all for a casual fuck.. dont get me wrong some of the girls are smart girls with masters degrees and good careers. But they get men telling them "Your great eye candy, your beautiful, but your not wife material" In the end they marry some average looking girl or some female who doesnt take care of herself and just looses it in a few years. Then she wonders why her man cheated on her with some other female... So why?

Why is that the good-looking girls get treated this way?
Why dont you men want to marry a girl who is "above" average looking when you are dating her, whats wrong with them?
Are you scared, she will leave you or what?
If you men drool over the pretty girls, why not treat them with respect?

 

I agree all women should be treated with respect, but I think you have to look at the other side to answer this question - possibly it's because these men think ugly women are more often better wives: harder working, better with children, less prone to adultery? You do have to sacrifice your looks to some extent when you get married to secure the life you want.

 

Insecurity, the demon of the male psyche.

 

If you into shit like this- - take a look a her mom.
At 25 they,re are an awful lot of pretty little girls around- - but fast forward 25 years> Your pretty much going to be with someone (if it lasts that long) that resembles her mother-

This is why you marry for love, it has a better chance of beating time than looks*
5am Thoughts
JJack

 

I am going with what junglejack said, plus I'll add something else.

Men really do, more often than not, think with their eyes. But at the same time, if they find someone who really gets them, then looks become not so important. Many men really dig being accepted for who they are and can act themselves; it makes them feel very comfortable because they know they don't have to act. More often than not, these women tend to be on the average side (maybe it's ratio).

 

i think cuz when you compare the "less than average" looking person with a good looking person, theres typically a large conifdence difference. this confidence connects with "theres more fish in the ocean" kind of mentality, which is seen by both genders. if someone is really good looking, they have more of a selection of available partners in which they get to choose. a less than average person does everything else to accomodate, and theres nothing wrong with either.
if it's a good looking person that has confidence problems, people pick up on that and guys will, to an extent, assume or exaggerate upon that 'personality trait', similarly to like the OP is doing by saying all men are disrespectful to good looking women.
plus any person turns into an animal in front of a sexy beast

 

Because really good looking women usually have a false sense of entitlement, get lots of things in life for free, and work half as hard as everyone else for the things they do actually have to work for.

Looks carry a lot more weight for the female sex than they do for the male sex in our western society and it spoils attractive women which has a negative effect on their character.

Sure this doesn't apply to everyone - but it applies to most.

 

it's not because they look good; it's because they're strippers.

 

The reason you hit on them for a fuck is because you know they have no self respect.

 

my wife is smokin hot

 

usually, by the time us respectful guys get to em, theyve already been jaded by all the just wanna fucks.and unless you have serious bling, its already over.

lol,, but i live in vegas, so maybe slighly accelerated

 

so true

 

oops

 

please dont agree with me

 

haha, its the truth though. its hard to feel something for people who let you walk all over them.

 

it maybe your truth , because you choose it to be.
not mine bro.

 

I think the answer to this is men are not as shallow as women often like to think they are. When men are on the prowl for casual sex, they're going to zero in on the hot girls. When theyre looking for something more long term and serious, that they can talk to, have fun with, and that will be sweet to them.

The same can be said of girls when looking for a potential partner. I don't ever, ever go for the hot guy. I go for guys that make me laugh, that are sweet to me, and that understand me. also guys i have incredible chemistry with, and chemistry is decided by some unknown force that really has little to do with the way a person looks.

I think when it comes to picking a long term mate, people are very primal. Instinctly, we're all looking for someone that we can picture having children with.

 

I dont know I usually.. dogde the annoying/casual guys. I tend to go for the "average" looking guys who dont dress up or spend a longer time than me in the bathroom. I actually only ones went after a "hot" guy and it did not turn out well. When I look for a casual or a serious term I like my average joe's. They like spending time with me, we have fun (drinking, coffee, movie etc), have good conversations... but I never become the GF. Then they stop talking to me when they meet their average gf. Gah that actually happened to me a month ago, there was a guy whom I got along really well with, but then he felt guilt for hanging out with me (even though we did nothing) and engaged his gf after a week! We havnt spoken since!

 

I mean on the street, in the mall, at your work! In your life. Unless you live in a stripclub you dont count.

 

^ this

men have been accused of treating women like objects for so long that a lotta women presume that is what we actually do

looks are fine... but if things are gonna lead to anything more complicated than a fuck, looks just ain't enough... if it were, beautiful people would never get divorced