I don't think so... I mean, beautiful = attractive, ugly = unnattractive... etc. you can be attracted to whoever you want for whatever reason. it's not like you're deciding who you're attracted to, you know?
I think that if you are only attracted to beautiful guys because they are beautiful, then yes you are shallow. It's extremely superficial to decide how you feel about someone based solely on how they look. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but it's a pet peeve that I have. I am by no means "ugly" so that is not the reason for this post. I just feel like there's so much more to a person than how they look.
No no, hmm, fair enough i do find myself only attracted to beautiful guys but you said 'extremely superficial to decide ' i have actually anaylsized myself here on this one and i dont 'decide' anything, its just theres nothing there i dont feel anything for a guy unless they are 'fit' but saying that i also am only interested in good guys, a guy that will be honest, genuine, look out for people,... i have no time for assh0les and i couldnt care less if a guy was exactly the guy i was looking for in regards to looks because if he was a pr!ck id stay well away. Maybe im looking for someone thats too hard too find, aka 'mr perfect' or maybe i wont care about looks if i find 'the one' , i duno ill find out i guess, im a goodlooking guy myself so maybe im just looking for the same... I like cake
the way i like to think of it is like this. if you are thinking longterm... a relationship cannot withstand the test of time if you aren't attracted to someone. you need that attraction in some regards to keep the passion there. honestly how long do you think a relationship is going to last if your partner, although he has a wonderful mind/personality, doesn't get you horned up in the least? now as others have stated if the basis of your attraction is soley physical then yeah that might be a little shallow but its also an evolutionary thing i mean, animals pick their mates based on observed traits that are precieved to be "good" or traits that are thought of as healthy for producing offspring, while i know guys can't produce offspring (with other guys) i think the same mentality applies, naturally you are going to look for someone that you think has good traits, healthy, fit, pretty, smart, funny.