Is it possible

To be straight, but think guys are hot? I have thought I was gay for a long time but something was off last time I was with a dude. I think guys are hot, and would maybe do sexual things with them, but I don't have that "love" or "affection" towards guys. I still get it for girls, and although I find some girls attractive, most of them just annoy me.

I don't know what this means.

 

what do you think of guy emotionaly? and what kind of person are you. more masculine or feminine, or an even mix of both?

 

I really like some of them, but it tends to be the masculine guys who end up just being straight, and I am more masculine than feminine. Well, pretty masculine but if I want to do something thats somewhat feminine, I will. I don't really give a fuck about gender roles.

 

Maybe you've just been meeting up with the wrong guys. I've seen plenty of women who are hot, but I certainly wouldn't want to do the deed with them. What was the question again ?

 

When I first came here I didn't think I could ever have any emotional attachment to a guy, I think as someone had said before, the standard of emotion attachment to girls only was drilled in my head by society. Now I know that emotionally I know like both equal, sexually I'm attracted to guys more.

You could be different of course, my problem was I was bargaining with myself for ages and apparently using the emotional attachment as my main argument against me not being straight in my head. Then I just accepted it.

 

It's possible.

But perhaps you are just yet to find Mr Right!

 

you can totally be straight and think guys are hot i mean, its just appreciating the way people look. i myself am gay and i find girls attractive. i find women to be beautiful and i really appreciate the female body...the curves i mean for a gay guy i stare at women all the time lol and its probably inappropriate but i can't help it. but like you i just don't have that "love" feeling for them and i know that im gay so thats why i say yes you could be straight and think guys are hot.

 

SlushieMushie, maybe you're bi. Or anywhere in between! Or maybe you just shouldn't be labeled right now because you are still figuring things out. Maybe that "last guy" wasn't right, not guys in general. You could just not have found the right person on the guy side, one who is ready for love and will let you feel comfortable with an emotional attachment, with being vulnerable around them, you know? It's all an internal struggle in the end. Maybe what you're struggling with isn't who you like, but who you are and what your feelings are on a deeper level (fears, insecurities, societal pressures). Just know that you are only 22, and you have plenty of time to figure all this stuff out. For now, be okay with being confused/uncertain.

 

stright bi or gay whats it matter just find someone who makes you happy!