how do you tell if someone is good in bed

a what??

 

How good in bed are you, micha?

(never thought I'd ask that question)

 

You can tell how open a person is and how sensual they are in most cases.

 

Well I'm horrible in bed. But I am fucking fantastic on the floor.
Now I'll refer again to Bill Hicks:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xlMtY8BXhaA"]YouTube - Bill Hicks on dance clubs

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

lol. I always liked that bit.

 

You know it's serious when they give 'professional references'.

 

i think the question was "how" not "is it possible."

 

You can tell a man's good in bed if he has a really big penis. A woman if she has a really tight vagina......

 

you can tell a man's good in bed if he's me. if he's not me, he's probably not as good as he could be.

 

buy her a corn dog.

 

In my experience there's really no way to tell - i've known introverts that were total freaks and ones that weren't and acted like corpses - and the exact same thing for extroverts that were the life of the party... either way.

Women that have a lot of self confidence do seem to be less afraid to let the freak out. I would also agree with a previous poster that you can generally tell by how a person kisses.

Also - I'd point out that - slutty... does not equal good. A girl can be willing to do everything under the sun in bed and still be horrible at all of it. Then you could get a girl who won't do anything except for vaginal intercourse and be absolutely amazing at fucking your brains out.

 

^ So true. Im a introverted person but Im a fucking kinky person in bed, people whom I dated or my close friends get suprised of what I do in the bedroom. Such as my friend who is extroved and outgoing, wild and did fuck too many men to count before the age of 18 ugh was considered "good" since of her age.. but bad during the act.. only good thing was the visual thats it based from guys telling.. no idea why. She had way more partners and probably more sex than me.. but I know I tried way more than her and know what I like.. She still didnt find her clit after 3 years!

Anyway.. so it truely depends.... on each person.. dont base it on how many partners they had or havnt. I watch out for signs such as how comfy are they sexually.. how far are they willing to go just from words... what they like just based from their exp... just from that you can get your basic; vanilla sex or something else.. depending on your taste you'll know.

If those dont work.. and I want to know further.. I make out with them.. The ones that took lead and then let me, and do lots of touching, and pushing etc we're the ones I knew I wanted to bed with.. the ones that were soft and gentle and just caring werent my cup of tea.. lets say both are good kissers.. base it on their actions.. you know whether its sub or dom etc whether they take lead or let you follow.. that alone shows a lot how they are in bed and based on what YOU like.. if you like vanilla sex then you'll know off the bat.

 

Doesn't it have alot to do with chemistry too, while with one lover it maybe a bit naff and wishy washy,
with another amazing and totally mind blowing..
Sometimes the sex is better worked on and other times its a boring after awhile.
Those first few touches you can usually tell by..

 

If they're confident, how flirty they are.

 

If you see (in this case a female) walk out of his house with blood stains on the back of her shirt.

 

There's been proven studies that bigger guys are better at sexing... just sayin.

 

Micha, you ask an impossible question. There is no way to tell. Worst case, you have wasted a condom and 20 minutes of your life.

 

Watch their moves on the dance floor. If they are limber and sensuous, that will translate to good horizontal dancing.

 

ask someone that you know they've slept with

 

It all depends on wat u are lookin 4.