Fuck the Hot girl; Marry the Ugly.

Maybe thats why. Maybe they shouldnt all give in to a casual fuck so they actually found someone who cares about them as a person. Maybe its just me, but i would never be interested in a serious relationship with a woman who is fucking around randomly.

 

How do you know that some of us aren't just using you for sex?

 

thats fine with me, i like fucking women. haha. if a girl came up to me and was like i just wanna have sex with you, id say okay

 

I think youve hit the nail on the head right there.

and also b) what others have said about the higher chance they would cheat i guess (whether perceived or reality), because they have people hitting on them all the time, they know what they can get and even if youre fantastic once you are "the norm" everyone will look more appealing, and also

but also c) these guys are probably hopeless at relationships or just simple, so end up with a so called "ugly" girl.

who knows what that actually means too, to them ugly might mean just not "model material" (cringe, models are not the peak of attractiveness at all), and these "ugly" girls just have personality and arent like everyone else, and actually put effort in and try and dont wait for the guy to do everything. Not saying these girls, or just hot girls are like that but im sure some are because like said earlier some rely on looks to get them through cos it always has.

 

Most of the less than average looking chicks make better mums, there not so up them selfs and spend time with the kid more than they do in the mirror. They generally care more about others but still look alright. I have done modelling in the past but im also a cook, cleaner, Animal lover etc and hopefully soon to be mum! Im engaged to a wonderful man who goes for personality before looks. I guess its just prefferance!

 

How on earth does appearance make you a better mother? Beauty fades, but dumb is forever.

 

If you are talking about women giving into casual fucks with you then I think this is such a double standard.

If you mean just in general because you don't fuck around, much the same as you expect from a woman you could be serious about, then more power to ya. youre a rare man.

 

It doesnt but most 'good looking' people tend to be stuck in the mirror & dont care much for there kids... I have known of 3models yes i know not many, but they hated the kid coz they got fat etc

 

Then you have a rather small world. There are good-looking people who aren't stuck on their looks. Most aren't.

 

I've seen both sides of this issue, and there is definitely a downside to looking too good. When I wear a ponytail, bland clothing, and very little makeup, I get treated better by most people. I get more respect. When I make an effort to look my best, guys assume that I'm stupid and shallow, and a lot of women are mean to me because they apparently consider me a threat in some way. In other words, they base their actions on stereotypes.

No matter what I look like, I'm the same person every day. Adults should be able to figure that out.

 

^ How does a better-looking person cause to become the worse mother out of the two? Ok so you known a few models.. and they got "fat" after their child. Thats understable.. baby-fat takes time to go away, genetics play a strong role, and many models can still continue their career after having a child. As for better-looking people being stuck to the mirror.. such stereo-typical comments. They waste so much time in the bathroom they become bad parents. The knowledege amazes me. It comes down to what type of parenting they use on their child due to their personality. They can be uncaring, unloving, unprotective, and unattendive parents (for exp) would looks make a factor into their parenting skill?

^ I can see why people would treat you with less respect when you dress up... I believe people get intimidated by others who seem "higher" than them whether its having more power, skill... people go into a self-def mood I guess. I used to do that with other females.. now I am glad they take their time to look better... cause I dont see that much anymore here. People can always assume, but when you talk to them, its their stupidity that will make them feel lower about themself... either they loose at the chance to understand or they realize "not to judge a book by its cover"

 

I've heard this complaint many times, but having been on the receiving end of being turned down/stood up during my dating days, there's potentially another side to this story. This may or may not apply to your friends, but here's my experience.

Going into college I was the product of an all-boys Catholic high school. While I got a superb education, my friends and I were socially backward. After hanging out in conspicuous locations on the college campus, etc., we realized the girls weren't throwing themselves at us. One of my friends and I came to the realization that we were just going to have to swallow our pride, risk making asses of ourselves, and approach the girls. The initial results were understandably disasters, but we persevered. Eventually we both had some success.

Anyhow, I never got comfortable with casually asking out a girl. I always felt like I was setting myself up for rejection and frustration. It would have been easy to give up, but my hormones wouldn't let me. When I did ask out a girl it was always tough - voice cracking, hands shaking, etc. I think I only had one girl turn me down to my face, but that's not to say I went out with all the others. Well over 50% of the time I got stood up. It was pretty depressing to hear that something suddenly came up, etc. Okay, I'd give her the benefit of the doubt, call again, but eventually I realized she didn't want to go out with me but just wouldn't say so. By the time I made that realization I felt like a complete idiot and just wanted to hide, but eventually my hormones would kick in and I'd try again.

What are your friend's standards for guys? Are they being asked out by guys but are reluctant to give them a chance? Most girls who've seen pictures of me during my high school days have commented that I was cute and "dateable," but I've never been a well-built hunk. I was nice, but not a smooth talker. Anyhow, I eventually married a girl who was a lot of fun to be around, but wasn't a looker. That didn't bother me, but she had a lot of insecurities. She'd been quite the hottie and very popular during high school, but had put on a lot of weight. She continued to balloon. I never commented about her weight, but her insecurities got worse and worse till we eventually divorced.

I'm on my second marriage (17 years now !!). This girl was more shapely, still fun, and we seem to compliment each other very well.

I don't know how old you and your friends are, but both my wives have commented that they probably wouldn't have dated me in high school. I wasn't a hunk, didn't have a hot car, wasn't in a band, etc. Anyhow, I'm very content with where I ended up, but it's not always the guy's decision who gets dated and who doesn't. Sometimes it comes down to who says "Yes" and actually shows up when he goes to pick her up.

By the way, when I divorced my first wife I was 32, and had a very successful professional career. When I started trying to date, I came to the rude realization that the games played by guys and girls alike were just the same as when I was younger. I was stood up a few times and found it all very frustrating. In other words age wasn't the factor.

In defense of girls, I've heard a lot of stories about jerky guys as well. I just wanted to respond to your question from my perspective.

 

Because women who have casual sex are the worst. Just the worst.

 

I'll answer your question if you answer me this one

these really beautiful girls that you speak of, when they do find love, why is it that their boyfriend is always some chunky, skinhead bastard who can't count to five on his own hand and will punch his own mother for a ticket to the big game?

 

They had boyfriends that you mention off. But was it love? No.. it was from loneliness and just attraction of the moment. I know a few dated guys like that and knew they wouldnt marry them and just had them for the time being. I dont know whether its based off looks or they were bored, but I can say it wasnt love.

 

Im sorry to hear your 1st marriage didnt work out. Congrats on the 2nd one and good that all is well. The way I see it.. if a female or male has insecurities then when they enter a relationship it causes problems; either you work it out or you dont. You did not mentioned to her she was gaining the weight (if i am correct) so i guess the problem went on with other issues arising. In my relationship my problem was known due to my anger, but it was resolved, even though it was tried, it still did not work. Either way both people had insecurities which played a strong role in the relationship. Im not sure if you had any.. but it seemed like you did due to the metal block of rejection. Some people pass it some people dont. Now my friends are attrached to guys from those bulky loser guys to normal caring guys. I want a normal guy and Im not attrached to those "flashy" car guys like you mentioned - I never was. I dont need to have lots of money, or a a car to die for. But do have a car, do have a job, be a good person and we're good to go. But basing it off looks, they get into these weird horny moods and go "omg, call me, tomororw ok ?" and it just goes into a casual steer. Then when its a "hot" guy its nothing but based on who;s better or what do I get from you?

 

Often the super hot girls ARE the players.
It's also an insecurity thing for guys. I always trust a hot girl less.

 

sometimes the hot ones just just aint worth it
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A pretty blonde, looking to earn some extra money, decided to offer her services as a "handy woman" and started canvassing an affluent nearby neighborhood.

She went to the front door of the first house, and asked the owner if he had any odd jobs for her to do.

"Well, I guess I could use somebody to paint my porch," he said, "How much will you charge me?"

The blonde quickly responded, "How about $100?"

The man agreed and told her that the paint and everything she would need were in the garage.

The man's wife, hearing the conversation, said to her husband, "Does she realize that our porch goes all the way around the house?"

He responded, "She was just up here, how could she have missed it?"

A short time later, the blonde came to the door to collect her money.

"You're finished already?" the husband asked.

"Yes," the blonde replied, "and I had paint left over, so I gave it two coats."

Impressed, the man reached into his pocket for the $100 and handed it to her.

"And by the way," the blonde added, "it's not a Porsche, it's a Lexus."

bada-boom**

 

There's a song in South Africa that goes?:

"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life / never make a pretty woman your wife / so from a personal point of view / get an ugly girl to marry you."

Just my two cents worth

 

who wants to marry a stripper. It's a nice fantasy but really