i am a freshman in high school. i met my bf like a week after i started. hes a senior and he's on the football team. real popular. he could be with anybody but he wants me. i love him with all my heart. about a couple weeks after we was dating he told me he wanted sex. i wasnt sure about it but i knew if i didnt he would find someone who would. like i said he could have anybody. so one night we did it. it hurt like HELL!!! i told him but he kept going. at the end i was crying but i never told him to stop. he held me an told me he was sorry tho. we been having sex since then. last weekend i was over at his place. his parents were gone for vacation or something. we was watching a movie and i was cuddling up to him. anyway 1 thing led to ano ther. we went to his room and he said he wanted some sex again. i wasnt feeling good that night. i told him. then he got htis mean look in his eyes. he grabbed my wrist and he told me to either put out or get the fuck out. he told me if i didnt he would just find somebody else who would. when is tarted crying he called me a fucking baby and he picked up his phone. he told me he was going to call casey his ex girlfriend and get her to come over and do it for him. so finally i said okay. i told him i would do anything. that time he really hurt me when we were having sex. he was pulling my hair. he spanked me so hard. he was so rough. i kept asking him to be gentle. he called me a bitch and a slut. he said i was just a stupid whore. when he was finished he threw my clothes in my face n he said to get the fuck out of his house. he said he might still call casey after all. i dont know what to do. i have not slept or eaten since that night. im so scared. i love him. i dont know why he is doing this. i saw him in the hall today and he was very nice. he smiled and give me a kiss. he said he loves me. but after that night id ont know. im so afraid. what should i do???
borderline rape... what state are you in? get away from that goon, nothing good will come from this relationship. Physical and emotional abuse 110%... talk with your mom ASAP!
If it's only been a few weeks and he's already grabbing your wrist and disrespecting your wishes, I surmise things can only get worse. Play it safe and dump him, don't be a fool.
if i told my parents i think my dad would kill me. like literally. if he even had a clue i was having sex he would go NUTS. i cant talk to them at all. there is no way.
Do what the other posters have said and get away from this fool. Based on what you've said about him, he sounds like a very unpleasant person and certainly doesn't love you. I wouldn't be surprised if he treated "Casey" exactly the same way, (assuming she even exists). Do yourself a favour and find someone who will treat you properly, rather than abusing you. G.L.
hun get the hell away from him now your heading down a dark road if you stay with this guy. run as fast as you can and dont look back. i know nerds might not seem cool but they can be much safer than a testosterone loaded sports jock, belive me just cos he is popular dosent mean he is a good guy
WOOOOOOOO a bit of generalizating there, There can be asshole nerds as well, as well as very cool, down to earth jocks. This guy is an asshole though, and he doesn't love you, I don't know why you are under the impression he does after he hurts you like that. If you don't feel you can talk to your parents you should try to find some older adult that you can talk to and maybe surround yourself with some other people and away from him.
ok i might be generalizing, im one of the good guys who got beat up by jerks like this, but i agree get to know someone first ive been with my current gf for 6 monthsand we havent gone past kissing.
If your feeling toward him were truly reciprocated, then his first concern would be for what you wanted from him, not vice versa. Plus, if you're that concerned about his finding someone else, then that shows that in your heart of hearts you don't really trust him anyway. Although women outnumber men on this earth, they are much more in demand. You have the upper hand, so don't let him forget it. You're in a far better position to find someone else than he is. Find someone who will respect you for yourself - not just someone who wants to treat you as a hole for a quick fix as & when they find convenient.
I was almost convinced until Zambino stuck his nose in. The boy who cried wolf routine only ruins it for people that actually get raped or abused. You need serious help if you think that's funny troll. Peace Out, Rev J
