Feeling a bit down today.

How awesome are you. Telling it to me how it is. Is was really useful advice thank you so much!

 

Oh guys thank you all that took time to read and write to me! I hate when I complain like this no that I do this all the time,its just that yesterday I was really hurting.
So yesterday we talked I did make the same mistake of being to harsh because I got very impatient,he did end up walking away. Suddenly I just grabbed him as he was leaving and I begged him to hear me out. We talked and he wanted to break it up. I couldn't do it in my heart,I felt most of the damage was my fault. For now we are friends and we decided we need to work our way up to maybe getting back together. We both want and need personal space and personal change so that way we can learn to communicate. This space is going to let us know if we really love each other. As much as I don't want to break I have to respect the decisions made. We do live together by the way which will be very difficult. But I realized that by hearing someone else you can relieve that person's pain.By just hearing them out.

 

^ Good luck. If it doesn't work out, it's probably for the best; but I'm just worried about things getting nasty with yins living together and all...

I mean, hopefully you guys can learn to be friends and work everything out, but usually breaks entitle some time apart =P

 

You guys should both take some E and just sit down and talk. It has always worked wonders for my relationship. We have been together 6 years now.

 

I hope that I didn't come across like I think I have all the answers, or something like that. I guess since I've been in the position of being yelled at by a gf and just walking away, I think came at the issue imagining myself in your bf's shoes.

I think that both of you have the same share of responsibility for making the relationship work. If he has been the one walking away though, it may be that you have to be the one that does most of the hard work for fixing things if you want things to work out.

When I said that you should apologize and then hear him out, I wasn't suggesting that you were the one at fault, or that you were the one obligated to fix things. I guess what I was saying is that sometimes it's necessary to do more than your fair share of work to make things work out.

Maybe it will help to have some time apart. If you haven't told him that you feel like the damage is mostly your fault, maybe hearing that from you might help.

It occurs to me that I might have been more helpful by just saying that I'm sorry that you are going through this and that I hope it all works out, rather than offering advice. If that's the case, then please ignore everything that I said previously.

I'm sorry that you are going through this and I hope it all works out.

 

I've been there quite a few times with my relationship lately too. I just never give up...at least I know I'm trying...

 

to be honest, i never really understood either of you...

 

Duck: Thanks duck, I also hope things will work out

MayQueen~420~: To be honest in the past we had many rolls together, also did wonders to our relationship mostly friendship.BUT we started depending on E alot, we didn't try following through without it. We've stopped doing that for a while but you know, you got me thinking I think one more time again wouldn't hurt.Thanks!

e7m8: No I don't think you had all the answers like that,don't worry you didn't come off like that. Thanks you for the useful advice and for helping me out man! Hope maybe my thread has showed you something useful in your relationship.Good luck to you and your gf.

CircusgirlsandHippies: Glad to know you haven't given up,follow through that!

I'minmyunderwear: Me neither man:/

BBAD :LOL you made me laugh! I might just do that

Mr.Writer: I see what you mean.

 

I hope all works out for you, yno what they say, love hurts, and life is a bitch

 

I'm very skeptical on the drugs as a solution scenario... in my experience drugs only delay things - they don't actually solve anything... So unless you plan on staying high forever...