Have you ever been secretly in love with a good friend? Did you do anything about it? Do you recommend the same?
Been there, done that. Yes, I told her one night while we were both drunk. She told me: "Spare yourself the agony, I'm too screwed up to be your girlfriend." And: "Ok, if at the age of forty we're both still single then maybe we can get together." To which I replied: "That's way too long! (We were in our early twenties at that time) Can't you make it sooner?" "Okay, thirty-five." Oh well. Ah well, I don't regret trying. I dunno - you just never know how people will react. Like I'm glad my friend didn't freak out (though maybe being drunk helped). But when a coworker sent me a text message hinting that she wanted to reveal her feelings for me I freaked out and never answered. And here I thought I'd be cool. But it depends, I guess, on the situation and how you bring up the subject. My general attitude however is: No guts no glory :cheers2:
i had the same and i did tell her about it. she told me she couldnt because it would be weird what ever that means. were still close friends to this date
Secretly in love with my best friend? No. But, when I started falling for him, I told him. And we started dating not long afterward because he had felt the same. We've now been together for almost 3 years and are getting married in 2011. Tell your bestie how you feel. Best friends are usually the best people to marry.
Yeah, he's very cute. We live together now... We're not together together, we're just friends now... Yeah that wouldn't have worked, especially cause he's straight.
