ok so ive been dating this girl for 6 months now and i have a few issues 1) i dont fit, weve tried everything, i cant even fit my pinky. 2) i enjoy anal and ive read in posts that oftem girls will start on anal, how shoud i ask? 3) i like to be pegged, and not just with small ones either i can take the GAC and i love it, how should i break this to her and hopefully get her involved?
#1 I'm not fully understanding, or maybe having a hard time grasping the "don't fit" "not even my pinky" #2 Two ways to go about this, Exploring during sex to see if she might be into more anal play.Or straight up telling her, you want to fuck her ass. I've experienced that there is a trust factor with anal sex if it will be her first anal expeience. You'll need to have her trust. #3 depending on how she is with anal will make this easier...if shes into it... there's a good chance she'll be willing to "give it to ya!" If she isn't crazy about anal...less likely she'll be open to the idea of getting behind you. So young into the relationship I could see #3 causing concerns for her. If your gay? etc..etc.. "not that there is anything wrong with it, it just may cause concern for her" Be open be honest, have the talk outside the bedroom so there is no pressure to perform. Don't be to serious about it... that might freak her out. Example: If you HAVE to talk with her about something and set aside time to both fully focus on what you have so important to say.. and then it's about her having you with a strapon...might freak her out... but a straight forward approach is best.
1) anyone's pinky can fit, I mean come on, everyone shits bigger than a pinky! 2) asking is probably the best way to go here, good communication and good sex increase proportionally to each other in my experience 3) if she is interested in anal on her, she will probably be ok with turning the tables and fucking you at least once. Communication here again is absolutely vital. It would be best to start with a normal penis sized strap-on or she might get intimidated though
