Having a relationship with Stepsister?

be a man, claim ignorance.

 

Wow, I guess I took too long to decide because shes back with her boyfriend now which I hate. I'm so depressed now, thats why it took me so long to respond... The thing is that she pays like no attention to me now. I guess she never really liked me the way I like her. No, im in love with her. Its no fair that this asshole of a boyfriend she has gets her even though he doesn't appreciate her the way I do. She is honestly the most beautiful girl in the world to me right now, and I thought she really liked me, but apparently not. God I feel like such an idiot.

 

And her bf treats her like shit, its all physical. If I were with her I would treat her like the goddess she is. I can't even deal with this shit, I can't stop thinking about her and her boyfriend. Im completely in love with her and she probably doesnt even think twice about me.

 

this is exactly why you'll never have a chance. well, other than being effectively her brother...

 

it prob for the better, most relationships don't last...seems this one was not a laster or even a starter. Also I think it's healthy to maintain the perspective that if she doesn't love you you can't love her. You can want to love her but the you don't know what it's like to have her affection and attention which takes adjustment. the guy above me is right. I can't remember but there is a good quote about how to treat a women...in the start it is defiantly not on a pedestal.

Also if there wasn't mad attraction it was for the better, no point putting the moves on slightly awkward relation. I've made out with a second cousin and kissed a first cousin. And in the end it prob would have been better if I didn't

I am also seeing someone younger but only because there is a strong connection, before we said anything about relationship we really liked each other if you didn't the spark with your step then let her date "a-holes" and when you find someone, she'll be out of your mind in a puff.

 

I guess your right but I just can't stand to see her with this guy, im so jealous of him now. He really doesn't treat her good at all and it breaks my heart everytime I see them kissing or whatever.

 

I'm sorry that would be really terrible to basically always have to know what the girl you like is doing with someone else.
The bright side is when people get back together after breaking up at your age, the clock is already ticking to the next break up.
If she kissed you I'm sure it is awkward for her too now if she is not paying much attention to you.
I would just go for it next time they break up. Keep in mind though it has almost not chance of working for very long until you are both out of school and to get serious at all will take a lot of time and cycles of breaking up...
I'm sure this is not uncommon with step siblings. I think some of the awkwardness when it doesn't work out in the end will be tempered by the fact that you two basically have no choice but to be on good terms.
Sexually, I think you would have to step much softer if it was your mom that married her dad, and not your dad that married her mom.

 

Sit her down and tell her what you see in her BF. Might help if you did so in the presence of your parents.

 

aint this the same situation like in Mtv's teen mom?

 

Probably.