am i vain?

But if you don't try going out with the nice people because they are ugly then you don't get the chance to find out how nice they are

 

thats true, but im saying if you got to know them before

 

yeah but that's rare and alot of times your friendship holds you back from dating

 

yeah thats true...

 

I win... wahoo!!! Where's my prize?

 

Fat girls try harder & give great head...


<ducking>



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Thank you. Because, you know, that makes me feel just lovely.

How about trying to imagine these girls that hit on you without all the fat. That way, you can learn to accept them better and possibly learn to love them.

And, yes, you are vain. And there is something you can do about it.

 

Sheep, I commend you. Not many people can openly come out and say how cheap and vain they are, especially with all the conceited assholes roaming these forums. I'd bet there is'nt a soul here that would'nt turn down the fat kid without remorse or guilt. Sure it is'nt real nice, but that's reality folks.

 

Hey Your only human. you want to be with someone who you are attracted to characteristicly, and physically. I dont think its wrong at all to want to be with someone that you are fully attracted to. What i do think is horribly wrong is when assholes ( men and women) bluntly tells an overweight person that they dont want to go out with them cuz they are fat or something along those lines. so no you are not vain for wanting to be with someone that you are fully attracted to.

 

I agree sweetheart. and yes folks...I was overweight at one time.

 

lol.. as a fat girl, i can laugh at that. theres definitely some truth in that statement in it - well, for me at least. (well, im not going to say that i give great head - i've only done it once.. but he did tell me that i did an excellent job for a first timer.. so i'll take that as a compliment.. )

i read this somewhere online a couple of days ago and thought it fitting:
"Fat girls give the best head because they're HUNGRY."

oh, and to be on topic, sounds like you're not the greatest friend if you call your "best friend" fat and ugly.. but there's nothing wrong with not being attracted to certain people.. i mean, you like who you like, ya know?

- stykz -

 

I'm gonna take a stab at making an observation from your post. They will only be guesses from what I picked up in ur post so dont be offended by anything I say because I'm not trying to insult you at all.

First thing is you wonder why "fat girls" always approach you. Well think about that a bit and I bet you will figure out the answer. My guess is that you arent an "ugly" guy but maybe more just average in physical looks. Possibly the reason that they hit on you is they feel that maybe you are in their "league". How many girls do you approach that look like they could be a runway model? If you approach many, how many give you the time of day? I dont know you or what kinda guy you are so I cannot guess the answer to those questions. How many "runway models" approach you and attempt to strike up a conversation? I would guess; not many. Did you ever think that when you approach a beautiful girl that she is thinking the exact thing that you are thinking when a "fat girl" approaches you?
I agree that physical looks can make a big difference as far as your interest goes in someone, but there are ways to keep that to yourself and not hurt anyones feelings about it. Some ppl truly dont care about how someone looks physically and will hook up with someone because they are beautiful inside. That just depends on the person, its different with everyone. I dont think you are shallow for not wanting to hook up with a heavy girl, I do think you were shallow to come here and ask if you were vein. You know if you are or not, nobody else should have to tell you.

 

why?

i dont see the problem with that he is best friends with and is just making an oberservation of what she looks like. Is he exposed to lie about a girls looks if they are best friends.

 

Im not even go to waste my time by replying to this...

 

I have never understood the whole "you don't get the chance to know them before you ask them on a date" thing. I can't imagine dating some chick I knew nothing about, it's just asking to get hooked up with an evil bitch. Get to know people first, and see who you like THEN! I've never been with a girl who looked much like my poster girl (Kate Winslet) because I wait til I'm attracted to more than looks before taking it any further.

Ironically, some people seem to consider Kate Winslet a 'fat chick', or at least overweight, whilst I think she's perfect, but my policy of dating people I know as well as feel attracted to has led to me being with a very slim girl. Go figure.

 

well at least just tell me why you wish you could see how he looks?

i already know the answer to this question and so do everyone else including you but im just waiting for you to admit it instead of being so much better and higher than this person

btw dont say so you could pick out his faults

 

Amen, Brother. Beautifully put. Thanks.

 

haha i luv it when people think they know how you are, i luv it I tell ya..

I wanted to see what he looks like cause he was making fun of others..wanted to see what his weight was and everything else...that is all..

 

Remember when the Marilyn Monroe figure was in? And even before that when there were those famous paintings of voluptuous woman? Well, I have that type of figure and I know I've been regarded as overweight (although I eat an extremely healthy vegan diet and exercise at least 5 days a week). I wrote this after reading what Sammy wrote about Kate Winslet being regarded as a fat chick. It just goes to show what standards society sets for us and that these too will change. But you like what you like, right? Or do you like what others think you should like?

 

i concur...