this question pertains to men...if it was dark and you couldent see anything and you were being pleasured by someone..say for instance you were getting your penis sucked how would you know if it was a man or a woman...i mean it shouldent really matter should it? if you try to object to this, it would make you a conformist
Well...it all depends upon whether you're the type who only has sex for the pleasure or if you're the type to have sex with true. In the first case, it doesn't matter. In the second, what are you doing with your pants down in the dark around people who would suck the first dick they find? Different people will want different things in sex. Some want their bodies to tickle with warmth. Some want to physically express intangible emotions. Neither personality makes you a conformist or a nonconformist. Both conform with different groups...and neither group is composed of people who think the same way for the same reasons. Just because we do not conform to the ways you present as being correct, does not mean that we are conformists. . I fit into the second type. And you're right...it shouldn't matter, but, to me at least, it does...and that makes all the difference. It's so easy not to care...and so rare and precious when one does. Everything seems better when you know that you matter to someone else.
Bull fuckin' shit. Conformist to what, exactly? I think you don't know what you're talking about, and yet you're trying to assert that the way you see it is the only way to see it. But your claim conveniently ignores the reality that there is more to enjoying sexual activity than the actual physical sensation of having your penis sucked. I derive a tremendous portion of the pleasure of sex from the person I'm having it with, and that is a female. A specific female, in most cases. It's not as though there's nothing to the idea of who is doing the caressing or sucking. It's simply not what I want, to have a guy doing it to me. I get psychological erotic pleasure from watching a female form having sex with me; knowing that it is a female mentality behind it; seeing, touching, tasting, smelling (and even hearing) a female body. That's just how I'm wired -- heterosexual. There is no double standard or hypocrisy to it if I don't want the same exact physical sensation given to me by a male. A blowjob is not just a mouth on a penis; there is a world of attached psychological stuff to it, and you are just leaving that out, pretending it doesn't exist or doesn't have significant weight. By the way, I have been propositioned by numerous gay people I know who try to convince me that I should be able to "just accept and enjoy the physical pleasure" because they want to blow me. Well, tough. -Jeffrey
i'm not commenting on your question but on this last sentence. if we didn't object we would be comforming to you right now because that's the condition your putting us in. you can't say that if we do or don't do something we are or aren't conformists. conforming is doing something influenced by others and that last sentence influences the way of thinking of the readers so that would be conformity too. independence is the true form of anti-conformity and for an independent person the reply can be either sorry to get out of issue, i mean no offense to anyone peace & war
