The worst thing that has ever happened to me was never knowing about the existence of this forum. Signing up here is indeed an opportunity that I've nursed, rehearsed but certainly not researched and here I am, staring right the most wonderful forum on the planet. No matter how diligent one may be, there is still a little room for improvement, particularly when it comes to mental housekeeping if you know what i mean. There are no easy answers or obvious choices. You have to wing it and follow what your gut, heart, and soul tells you. There's no logic or orderly way to do this. You either spring into action or step away from the front line. I am talking to those of you who has no business being here coz i know many of you adopt a "wait and see" approach until whatever you're plans are have come to pass All the brothers in the house....You're in a position now to decide whether to continue a certain pursuit or hand it over to someone else....i don't need any further introduction, i spit it out like it should be.....let me see what sort of replies follows