I have been cursed,called a pedophile,called sick.I am a nudists,and believe its a wonderfull life style,and a good tool to use with molestf people.When one raises your child the naturist way,all is transparent and open,and qeustined by your kids.NUDISM is a honest upbringing without secrets.Bonding is done exactly as in non nudist households,and we do what others do,with the exception of developing sexuality,its not so secretive,and very publick.If one looks at the sexualy abused individual and child,nudity is associated with sexual obligation.But this is where difficuilty comes,bridging sexualistic nudity to natural nudity.The victim still chanels his/her nudity via an orgasmic outlet,but must now be guided differintly,i.e. , enjoying nature,freedom and not being or feeling ashamed,no matter what!BUT , ...WHAT IF THE Victim becomes more acceptant of their bodies,and start expressing themselves as themselves within this acceptance,what must i do as the parent...? Shame the child ...? , reject the child...? Scold the child...!? When raised as a naturist,that is a nudist,or introduced into non-obligatory nudism,does that mean,because you and your child are nudists,you cant hug...you cant cuddle...can not lie next to each other...no bonding...?How do u make others realise,its not sexual...but merely parental love?Textile kids explore their bodies,and so do nudist kids!Does it make it more wrong just because they are naked?Why people percieve nudism as unnatural ,i would never köw
Teaching children that their bodies are their own private property is not shaming them. Teaching them that their bodies should be on constant display for touching of others is exploiting them. Wanting every child around you to be naked and sexual is sick. And I hear child rape is a major problem in South Africa. http://www.independent.co.uk/news/w...cas-shame-the-rise-of-child-rape-1974578.html
Its unpractical to want every child naked,but the body shame is projected from a young age,birth to be exact,into the child.Further more,nudism is tarnished bx the excessive availability of pornography ! WHEN nudists do anything,it is associated,by those,ignorant about nudism/naturism,with either 'swinging/sex/pedophillia/child mollestation/child porn/adult porn/orgies and immorality. Let's look at the origin of this misconception. When a baby has its nappy changed,there are remarks made about the genitals, "what ugly/naughty/dirty little thing...oh,we must cover it before others see it.."it may be said in jest,but soon the child begins to feel that its ugly to be naked,and shame sets in,and later...curiosity..."am i different?" ALl kids begin to explore their bodies and genitals.Ever seen a todler boy walking and pinching or holding on to their willies through their shorts/trousers!?The parents scold them,and gives the impression that its bad,when,in actual fact,its normal.Masturbation is evil,and parents disaprove of it severely,yet when the kid gets older and becomes sexually active,they are cautoined to be safe.Parents disaprove nudism,and makes the child ashamed of their bodies.It makes no sense.Statistics prove,that abuse and molestation among nudists is basically non existant,rape (adults or kids)...non existant.. Sexual maturity is not excelled nor forced...nudist kids have irrevocable boundries of their bodies..,sexuality is sacred,even though not all that secret...mudist kids pride their bodies,as do adults,and respect it,even exposed.,barefoot kids and nudist kids perform best at school,studies done in Japan and Europe. Cöncerning the rape of kids in south africa,it is found amongst certain ethnic groups,where they are Hiv positive,and its rumored by 'evil' wichdoctors,that having sex wit virgins will heal hiv,which is bogus! Child rape also occurs in drug using environments (tik,amphophetamines) etc. ,as well as where alcohol ABUSE is rampant.Amogst nudists,its non existant.Nudist kids accept their sexuality as normal,and not an embaressment,and are open about it and not flaunting it,as is also the case with adults
