As a writer of erotic fiction with consensual, heterosexual pegging themes, I am biased, but... Personally I love it, it's a passion. First you need to get beyond the misconceptions: he's gay, it will turn him gay, he's somehow less manly, or that the act is necessarily accompanied by humiliation, degradation, abuse and/or feminization. If you can do that, it can be an amazing and very intimate experience for heterosexual couples. Many people, men and women, are too homophobic to try this. Which is really a shame, because the amount of pleasure that can be experienced by the man is extraordinary. Anal stimulation in men can provide huge amounts of pleasure because of their prostate, producing more powerful and more intense orgasms with more ejaculate (what's not to like!?). My guy loves it, and asks for it regularly. For women, sometimes just the act of pegging can be very arousing in a role reversal way. There are double-ended dildos that provide more pleasure for the woman, and some orgasm this way, too. I wrote an article about what I love about Pegging here: http://peggingparadise.com/blog/?p=315 Pegging = highly recommended! Ruby Ryder
I had looked very forward to trying this with my gf. We discussed it quite a bit, and it was going to be great. The problem lies in the fact that I derive no pleasure from anything in my butt. It has been discussed quite a bit here, and I have tried to follow some of the suggestions of other posters, but nothing seems to work. It really is a big disappointment for us, but there is enough other "stuff" we can do. There was never any discussion of it being a gay or non-gay activity. I haven't given up for life, but for a while. And welcome to HF to you both.
I have run across a few men like you, but not many. Yes - there is plenty of other stuff to do!:2thumbsup:
