How does a nearly 18 year old girl with 0 friends and minus 100% life motivation get up and start doing stuff?
Stop complaining and get yourself out there. You can live life wishing you had something or you can work your ass off to get it. During this journey for some who are trying to achieve something, they run into other rewards along the way. Sometime or another your gonna have to realize your in control of your life, and not others to make things easier for you.
Because she knows that she's not getting any younger. She knows finding what makes her happy today will give her the motivation to not pause when she gets up tomorrow (not a literal tomorrow). She's motivated because she has no friends and she knows the world is filled with people and friends are even easier to acquire than lovers. So if some people can find loves so great that they want to spend their whole life with them then she could find friends that are worth the effort of maintaining them. You can go anywhere, you could go to a nearby city you've never seen or sleep on a beach you've only passes during the day but either way with the right friends it's easier and more fun to try out. And by seeing who you like being around you might start to see the path of what you want to become. -Jp
Talk to yourself and evaluate why you're in that situation. Then figure out where you want to go from there...the key is figuring out the root of it all
you're letting your animalistic side of the brain take over.. Don't let the animal instincts, feelings, emotions, decisions take over, let your spirit flourish and let it make decisions. -Start: by doing something for yourself, let it be something like "look up jobs" "go out to find job" "go out to store to talk with people" and don't stress just do it and when you think your done keep going! Just keep going until you think you can't take it anymore, at that point your spirit should be moving and flowing.... Just do something that takes MUCH effort, but let it be anything, just knowing that I have energy is enough to get me rolling. Yah its her life but we're all interconnected, NO ONE makes a life ALONE!!! ...It is everyone that make lives for people as well as wealthy individuals that make lives for others, and family. I run my own business, without clients I wouldn't have the same life that i'm chosing, without family I wouldn't have support. People need support, everyone does so don't think your always making your own decisions.................... HELL I make very few decisions in my own life, everything is planned out, from what I wear to the time I wake up, how I act, what I say, it is all for everyone that helps ME.. I have few decisions to make, thousands to consider and millions of options. SO! ...do anything you need to do and do it as long as you can take, do the best you can, push yourself on one thing and it will help
no advice here, but it sounds like you aren't too happy. I hope that you find friends and follow the path that you are meant to follow. Maybe you could say the reason you think you don't have friends and don't have motivation.
Apparently you can’t even muster up enough motivation to respond to those who are trying to help you :toetap05: Hotwater
im sincerely grateful for people trying to help and giving me advice, and i wasn't been mean and not replying, its just that my internet is fucked and slow. im working on getting a job and i actually have been making art. ive been drawing a lot yesterday and its helping by breaking my boring routine. and you people have given me happiness by showing that there are people that care.
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Best advice I can offer is this: Get up, start a slightly different routine. Get a job that doesn't make you want to pull out your hair and hang yourself with it, save money. Once you've got enough, go somewhere new. Start fresh. Every city is full of new opportunities. Every DAY is full of new opportunities. Get out there, meet new people, try new things, go to new places. The pace of your life will speed up in its own unique way and you'll find yourself far happier in general. I hope this helped...it has helped me tremendously. Some might call it running away, but is it running when you've gotten everything your current situation could possibly offer? Is it running away when you risk festering if you stay? Besides, do it with the knowledge that your problems WILL follow you and it is easier to maintain a positive outlook on the process. Roll with the punches and chip away at ongoing problems. You'll find that the fresh experiences give you the motivation to keep at it. Peace and Love. -D
You say your good at art. Look up a bunch of underground musicians and start making artwork for the ones you like. I know a few that post artwork of fans on their websites and myspace pages. It's a good way to get your name out there and get your start.
