Love and shit

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Reno91, Oct 26, 2010.

  1. Reno91

    Reno91 Member

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    So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months now. We unofficially dated for several months all together though.

    Anyway, I believe we had this prime when everything would have lasted as perfect forever. I fucked it up, not with physical cheating but cheating in a sense I guess. She was stubborn in forgiveness for quite sometime and we took a break from speaking to each other.

    She came back to me and things were going good, I still felt love for her, and then she put me through some pure bullshit for a couple months that filled my mind with nausea, put me in some depression that I had never experienced before.

    Things are finally on track, she tells me she loves me, I believe that she does, I know she regrets hurting me. But I don't know how to love her back, I don't know if maybe she's not right for me. Maybe I haven't fully forgiven her. Maybe she's just stale to me.

    I enjoy her company, I get a long with her, I think she's cute. But I can't say that I love her and mean it.

    I don't know if I should break it up, somehow surrender my love to her, or just keep waiting to see if things get better.

    What do all of yous think?
     
  2. guerillabedlam

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    Hahaha at the title of the thread!

    You are 19, already having problems only a few months into the relationship I say break it off.
     
  3. Reno91

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    That's what the influence of marijuana always tells me, I'd feel bad though. I don't wanna hurt feelings.
     
  4. guerillabedlam

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    I'm not on marijuana, You're young and you both should probably both find yourselves a bit. Its better breaking it off now only a few months in as opposed to dragging it out and you being miserable and probably end up breaking up anyways.
     
  5. Ddoright

    Ddoright Senior Member

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    If you can put love and shit in the same sentence then you probably should back off - love and shit do not equate.
     
  6. Reno91

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    It's tough for me though, I've had several relationships but never had to break up with someone.

    A "psychic" also told me it wasn't gonna last.

    But I mean, if it worked perfect between us before I don't see how that necessarily means it won't work perfect again and that's also why it's tough
     
  7. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    before you try to break up with her....try getting anal
     
  8. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    Seriously man, just break it off. You're 19, be single for awhile, go to a strip club, get drunk with your friends, sleep around, do whatever.


    Not to sound callous but it doesn't sound too serious at this point. Move on and be happy for awhile.
     
  9. Reno91

    Reno91 Member

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    She's too pussy for that
     
  10. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    the guy that invented booze used to think that too
     
  11. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    Just threaten to break up with her, she'll give in then.......
     
  12. Reno91

    Reno91 Member

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    Hahaha that'd actually work
     
  13. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    I thought this thread was about anal, anyways??? :confused:
     
  14. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    You guys...lol

    What was the cheating exactly? And yeah, you're young, you should move on and have more experiences.
     
  15. Reno91

    Reno91 Member

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    I was texting an old girlfriend, she sent me a picture of her in a bra, then my girlfriend saw it in my phone because I forgot to delete it.
     
  16. wild-flowers

    wild-flowers forever arbitrary

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    fucking hilarious thread title! LMAO
     
  17. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    And what did she do to get back at you?
     
  18. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    have her sectioned. In a few years she'll be convinced she just imagined it.
     
  19. Reno91

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    Broke up with me and acted like a dbag at me for a month or so. That's when we just stopped talking to each other. She over reacted though.
     
  20. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    Shouldn't have been talking to your ex in the first place. That's probably why she treated you like shit.

    Here's a rule if you think it might upset your girlfriend or you have to hide it then you're probably doing something wrong.
     

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