I've always wondered if this was unusual, so I'm asking... haha... I've never really liked recieving oral sex that much... not that it doesn't feel great and everything, but I guess I don't really like just sitting there or whatever... I've always preferred giving, because I'm actually doing something. Sometimes while I'm lying there, I my mind tends to start wondering to other things, and I don't know why.... Am I a bitch, or is there just something wrong with me? haha... It's weird.
I LOVE recieving, but like you, sometimes my mind has wandered off too, and i've always felt really bad afterwards..lol..
I know! I always feel bad... Sometimes I'm just kind of like, "is he done yet?" and I feel so awful. But I've never said anything. Sometimes I pretend he's getting me so hot that I have to just grab him up and go nuts on him, which is always fun anyway.
my ex gf was like that, dont think your a bitch, but I love going down on a girl and recieving oral also
I enjoy giving, it's such a major turn on for me. Especially if he cums in my mouth, AHHH! I like receiving, but there are other ways to bring me to orgasm quicker...
That's a shame... haha, I don't know how I'd feel if I could sense the girl was getting bored. Luckily my woman begs for more when I pull away.
I would keep thinking that myself, don't ask her . Or have you already ?... it sounds like you have , but ?
I find that when I give head, it arouses me almost more than actually receiving oral sex myself. Gets me all hot and bothered. Sometimes it is better to give than receive. Although my hubby goes down like a champ.
Hmmm, recieving isnt really worth it for me unless other bits are fondled ... I love having my nipples played with when I'm recieving.... without it, nothing happens
Hey I could be wrong on this {& If I am, i'm sure women will say so} but I honestly think about 95% of girls feel that way. It has to do with the female nature -- nurturing, serving, and being on their knees in front of their man. For most women, it's the most erotic thing they could ever do.
I'm not like that. I somehow have a block against giving, I just can't get myself to do it. I really just can't handle it. Man, I wish I did, but appearantly not. It's annoying.
I LOOOOOVE giving oral sex to a woman! LOVE it! But yes, a big part of why to love it is the notion that she is going to get some ecstasy out of what I'm doing, and that she enjoys the intimacy and attention and love that I put into it. If it were just something that she puts up with but doesn't much care for, I'd be a bit upset. It's hard to say whether I'd want to know the truth, but usually I'll prefer the truth. If the truth is that what I like to do and what she likes to have me do are so different, we might have to call it quits. Who knows? Or we'd have to talk about what we really want from sex with each other. But when you're good at something, and you really like doing it, you get your hopes up that it also will be what floats your lover's boat! I've had good reviews, and am not worried about that aspect. When it comes to receiving, I love that too. I don't have a problem lying there or being "serviced," because I enjoy the feeling of being played with. I like to be the toy, the amusement. I certainly give pleasant reaction feedback, because it's very intense sensations we're talking about, and I think that my lovers have liked the way I struggle to keep control without going wild! You don't have to be a bump on a log when someone is going down on you, you know. Be verbal; be noisy if it makes you feel that way; wiggle and shudder (but not faking -- I mean if you feel that the sensation is making you want to). Stroke the person's hair or shoulders, maybe even in synchronicity to what they're doing to you with their mouth. There's lots of fun you can have receiving as well as giving. But some just don't like one or the other. Oh well. HaHa, you do enjoy when a guy sucks your toes, yes? -Jeffrey
Nothing wrong with you, ya big bitch. I'd have to agree that it isn't the greatest thing since sliced bread (the slinky is, btw). It's tough to get into anything other than a massage when you're just lying there, methinks. The fellas don't seem to like it when you start flipping through a magazine during their performances either.
It depends. If it's a guy I prefer to give him oral. Guy's just can't do me right, I don't get satisfaction if they go down on me. Fuckings the only way I get off with them. My g/f however, I can lay back and let her do me until I'm begging for mercy!