I think this post from nerdmaufia deserves it's own thread: I have yet to acquire the book, certainly plan to, sounds interesting. I transcended the concept of jealousy, and a few other emotions we generally take for granted, for me it did not take years but probably days - in a turn of events that caused me to re-evaluate everything I had been taught about human interaction in general. After this, I was free of anything you could attribute to jealousy - and it is a great way to feel - in essence, if someone is jealous about you, they are trying to cut you off from other people and keep you to themselves. I am happy that I do not try to do that to other people. Love to hear other people's experience with this
I guess it's a question of loyality and dedication and weather or not you can remained dedicated to your partner even though your sleeping around.
This makes a lot of sence to me. Why am I figuring this out now? I wouldn't want to responcable for cutting people out of someones life.