I'm only freakin 18! But I've attempted to be the top twice now, and both times, attempting anal made me lose the erection...which made it impossible. It's so embarrassing and sucks so much!!!!! I don't know what to do. Has anyone had this problem before? Should I try some sort of mental approach first or see a doctor? Or do I just jump to buying pills? HELP!
L-Arginine is an amino acid that helps with blood flow , that I take every morning . I have a little problem with ED , But I'm 49 . When you are with a girl or masturbate , do you have a problem keeping it up ? If not , then it's mental . If you can't stay hard anywhere , then at 18 years old , I'd check into it , with a doctor .
I was with women for years before I realized I was bi, and the first few times I was with a guy I either couldnt get it up or had trouble keeping it up. Thing was I talked to a few other bi guys and they reported the same thing a lot. Could be just you mind getting used to it. Could be emotional as well, I do not get as physically excited with people I am not as emotionally involved with. Do what you know you like, don't over think it, go with the flow, if it doesn't happen, then it doesn't happen.
I'm only 20 and have the same problem. I'm definitely going to be stealing some of my Dad's Viagra for now but hopefully can figure this thing out. The advice sounds good. Too bad I'm a typical American who wants instant results and doesn't want to work for anything. It's not that I can't get hard. It's just not hard enough. What pisses me off is that I randomly get huge for no reason. (Never at the right time) I'm going to make my boo shave too and see if that helps.