...sleep with girls that I don't know? I'm on the road travellin around alot and I meet alot of girls as I play percussion in a band. I guess because I'm in a band alot of those girls have one night stands with me. It's pretty sweet but lately I've been wondering if it's wrong to do that all the time....what do you think?
dont really see why u have to ask other ppl....but i dont see much harm in it. basically everyone does it, wether your on a trip to mexico with friends, travelling on the road, backpacking, everybody meets girls and fools around
Is it wrong? Well, if the ladies are okay with it, then I guess there's really nothing "wrong" with it. Now do I actually agree with someone going out and having sex with people they don't even know, and probably won't ever see again? No, but that's just me. I hold sex to a higher level than that. But like I said, if the ladies you meet are willing, then why not? They know they probably won't see you again, and they still want to do it anyway, so go for it. Be safe, and have fun...
so long as no one's getting hurt, the girls are game, I see no issue. Just make sure you use condoms and get tested for std's often (tell your doc if you've performed oral on a couple of different gals, because you can get std's there too). Condoms are for winners!
always safe and not its like Wilt Chamberlain or anything...it just happens sometimes and been startin to bug me lately...thanks for everyone's insight
Well... If it's starting to bother you, maybe you shouldn't be doing it. But I don't see anything wrong in doing it, as long as you're both enjoying it. Just do what feels good to YOU.
i can see why it would eventually start bugging you. it's called 'hard livin' in these parts. sex, drugs, and rock 'n roll, they just all go hand in hand. get tested regularly - you might want to be a little more selective... sex is supposed to be special. do you want to meet 'the one' already? or are you content with drifting for the time being?
It sounds to me as though you might be having a subconscious desire to settle down. You might not be ready to take the plunge yet, but perhaps you are wanting more of a solid relationship with someone. Good luck...
I have done that in the past, but it was never my style, and all that shit. I don't see anything necessarily wrong with it, being that it is two consentual adults. It is in a way cheating emotions, and cheapening any sex in the future with someone you actually know and love. In my opinion, if it is bothering you, stop. Don't ask what we would do. Just stay true to your own feelings.
