I don't have any friends

Since high school graduation in 1999, I have seen my former crew only a handful of times. Some went away to college, one moved in with their signifigant other, and one I have not talked to since they met my (ex) fiance. I have not spoken with the rest of them since the beginning of this year. I spend time with people from church, as we are a very close-knit family, but that is exactly what it feels like. Older brothers and sisters, as most of them are married with children. Most of the people I speak with daily are those who live in my computer.

 

sooo it seems u're ok with it, no?

 

Not really

 

Well join the club. Most of the people I hung around with turned into complete dicks.

 

ok, i didnt kno cuz your first post really didnt express more than a "confession".
well its hard to consider pple as your friends (im talkin about real life), but in fact sometimes u realize it only depends on your definition of what a friend is

 

i have no friends either...but its cool!!!

 

That's how I feel....Isolated, even surrounded by people....:&

Holly

 

Yup, I know how that is. Towards the end of my senior year, I just broke away/avoided them because they totally piss me off, yet I end up having almost no close friends. Go figure.

 

Go out more. Look for more people start conversations. Go to concerts and party you meet a lot of people that way.

 

we all want to be accepted, but we have to accept things we dont necesarily like or understand ourselves about our friends...learning to accept is a good start.
but making new friends is a hard long process...
ofcourse you have the ppl on the forum, but i guess that is not real human contact in the physical sense, but use what you learn from here to relate to ousiders.
ppl can be scary but one important factor is knowing that when you have a conversation with someone they are not gonna slap you in the face and tell you to "fuck off" unless they are a big loser, and generally the ppl you want to be friends with will be more your type of person...
most people are just as timid about meeting new ppl as you may be. try and step outside of your normal routine and give it a chance if you find someone interesting you want to know more about.

 

I wish I had friends too.
But I got raped at 14 and got pregnant as a result.

Didn't look to good to my friends. Not one person stuck by me. I don't let anyone in now and I hate girls for being so snobby and judgemental.

I want to let it go