It's been a while since I been on here but here goes. Is it weird that I am attracted to girls of other "races" or ethnicities that naturally doesn't make much sense. I liked this black girl since forever and really care about her but also find myself attracted to others like greek (whatever ethnicity that is). I am a "white" guy, or anglo as I would consider myself, and I also like white girls too, so not really anything wierd there. Also, I don't really have a fetish for other races, just meet some attractive girls that I like. Feels like it's not really a part of personality though, like my personality is contradicting itself.What do you think? am I weird?
I don't think it is wrong, but mass race mixing I think would cause a lot of chaos and destro cultures. In small ammounts though, especially intellegent people I don't really see the problem. I hope I am intellegent.
You sound pretty normal. It's not 'weird' that you don't discriminate, it's a good thing! EDIT- I spoke far too quickly. Apparently you think it's wrong not to have issues with seeing girls outside of your race. Hmm.
Mixing races doesn't cause chaos or destroy cultures. Why would it? I'm mixed race and I embrace both cultures. In small amounts or huge amounts, what difference does it make to anybody? Perhaps you're not as intelligent as you hope!
I just think that if absoultely everyone mixed all at once it might have adverse effects. If race is a reaction to natural enviroment, which it seems to be, then mixing races too much is unneccessary and might damage the original culture who have built their lives on a particular climate and hence melanin count. I like the fact that humans stick together no matter how different they are in hard situations. I just hope I am not following the wrong path by pursuing people who are not of the same race or ethnicity as me. I am sure it will all turn out well though. Sorry if I offended anyone.
You may have offended some. I generally just end up thinking less of people who have opinions like you do. I know I shouldn't, but even my studies teach me never to be judgemental. Of course we're all prejudice of something(s) but that doesn't make it acceptable. It's strange that I say all this and then I'm judgemental of you! Really you're just ignorant and I have a hard time accepting it. There's really nothing wrong with mixed race relationships. Why do you think it would 'damage' culture? It can only make things better. People and societies are evolving all the time. It's inevitable and there's absolutely nothing more natural.
Are your parents or family somewhat racist? I find when people are hesitant about interracial dating or the like and they don't really know why it's because their family or parents would not approve or at the minimum have made passing remarks throughout the persons life that were somewhat racist. I dated a black girl for about a year and am white. Maybe like the first month or so I was aware or thinking about the fact that she was black, from then after I only saw her as her and sort of forgot except at times when in public when people would let their gaze linger too long or etc... I'd also say it's easier to be a white man with a black girl than it is to be a black man with a white girl as far as push back from society goes. I don't know about the euro's but in america I think there is more of a stigma for dating black people in particular, as opposed to other ethnicity's. One day we'll all look Arab or Egyptian or close to it...
that actually seems a tad strange. not wrong, but statistically unlikely, assuming you're in the US. much more unusual than a white guy who finds dark women sexy anyway. are you shitting me? black guys with white girls are really common, while you almost never see it the other way around. and from what i've heard (mostly from black people and their white girlfriends), a white girl is like a trophy to a black guy.
I thought i was pretty clear - I mean as far as how much push back the couple gets from society on it(i.e. walking down the street holding hands, etc..) I have my opinions on why black guy with a white girl is more common but that's for another time and another discussion.
maybe. i really haven't noticed much difference in societal pushback, but it seems like people make a bigger deal out of a white guy/black girl just because it's so unusual.
The fact that you're worried by interracial relationships is the only worrying thing in this thread. *edit* received a neg rep from ROLLINGALONG on this post, saying "not interesting". Really grasping there, buddy... I neg reped you cause you're an annoying ****, and this rather confirmed my opinion of you.
