Russain girl for real or not?

Discussion in 'True Love' started by chakkname, Nov 5, 2010.

  1. chakkname

    chakkname Member

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    This is a crazy story and I never thought I would be involved in something like this but here it goes I need to know what you think and please don't just think it's a scam because it sounds like one in the beginning ok? And no I'm not in denial. I was on a dating site and I asked a woman on there a question. Just a simple question about a comment she made about not letting her daughter around men. I got an email back that said to email her on yahoo. She goes on to say that she is this Russain girl(don't get nervous yet) and is comming over for 6 months and wants a guy to show her around town. She will make whatever town she met a guy in her destination. She didn't ask for money or to stay with me but when I asked her if she had a place she never responded like many other question which does legitimately happen and I have done the same to her. The thing is she said she applied for a visa 2 months ago and is going to pick it up. She sends me an email a day and tells me about her family. Now she is flying to Moscow to pick up visa and her mom is going to pay her airfare. Now if she asked for money I know it's a scam but she hasn't. However she has basically done all of this in like 5 or 6 emails from Hello to I'm comming soon will you show me around and if that's all it's cool I would love to date this lady if she is real. My concerns are she is a scam. She might get here and expect to stay with me and I never even offered this. I don't see the money thing because she never even asked me what I do or what I make and what I put on the original dating site was very low. Could it really be that she could just want a guyt to show her around and doesn't want to end up in a city alone with no family or friends? The origional profile on the dating site was for a girl in my town but it was turned off when I looked it up again. Maybe a 2 week trail? I know this has all the earmarks of a scam but what if it's real and I just bail out on this beautiful woman and miss my chance? I know I would think it's a scam but could she maybe just want to meet a man from here?
     
  2. chakkname

    chakkname Member

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    No body?
     
  3. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    sure sounds like a scam..

    its probably a man
     
  4. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    it's the paragraph police, coming to get you.
     
  5. chakkname

    chakkname Member

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    lol paragraph police! What could the scam be though she hasn't asked for any money? She did ask to crash out but said it was cool if that wouldn't work. I just don't know how to take it. If it's real the girl is beautiful more so than any I have any been with or probably will end up with would be a shame if it's legit to not give it a chance. Any more suggestions?
     
  6. NomadQueen

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    whats the worst that could happen? just meet in a public place
     
  7. chakkname

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    A broken heart if I get my hopes up. This girl is very beautiful
     
  8. danielleinthesky

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    just do it, you only live once.
     
  9. RooRshack

    RooRshack On Sabbatical

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    I only skimmed, I can't handle walls of text, unless it's MY wall of text.

    I wouldn't do it, sounds like a good way to get your ass stuffed in a cargo container and shipped off somewhere to be someones bitch for the (short) rest of your life... Don't do it man... Sounds like all kinds of setup. If she answered your questions that's cool, but if everything's not on the clear, free, open up&up, don't go NEAR that shit. That just sounds like all SORTS of scam/way to end up dead/seriously fucked over. They don't have to ask for money until they got your ass....
     
  10. chakkname

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    lol roorshack. She is comming here atleast so far that's how it's going.
     
  11. chakkname

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    What are girls from russia like? I mean she seems very unconcerned about my background you would think that somebody would want to know more. She never asked me about my job or anything just if we would be living together. She hasn't asked for any money and I was waiting for that it just all seems very rushed or something. I'll keep you posted. If you have any comments please feel free post them I could use the imput
     
  12. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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    she's a prostitute
     
  13. Justin_Hale

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    Ask her for a photo of her holding up a hair brush in her left hand, or something like that.
    That would be hard to do for a scammer who's using false photos.

    Tell her you just want to know if she is for real. If she acts offended, then she probably is a scammer.
     
  14. natural philosophy

    natural philosophy bitchass sexual chocolate

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    you're going to get raped by a large russian man
     
  15. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    ^this


    even if she is real...she is probably not coming alone
     
  16. chakkname

    chakkname Member

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    Who would she be comming with?
     
  17. HNW

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    Her mother.
     
  18. SpacemanSpiff

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    or a 300 pound uncle
     
  19. RooRshack

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    Or an entoage of 300 pound body guards, who will all be paid for their services by the large ransom being extorted for the pathetically niave, easy to trap american.
     
  20. Lorz

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    I worked with a guy who got caught up in a scam... funny shit! lol

    However, with what info given, it doesn't indicate a scam yet... my advice would be to proceed with great caution and wait for it... the scam is something will happen and she'll need a few bucks to get the ticket and to get here. It'll be a last minute hurdle that you'll need to assist in. She'll pay you back as soon as she gets here.

    Could it be legit? sure... I'd let her know when she gets here and settled in, to give you a call. The constant updates from her is to draw you in... Mail order brides are a legit service...but when they find you.... it'll most likely be a scam.

    "Why do you need to prove or disprove something? Truth is inherit to reality itself, not what you think. Disproving and proving has absolutely no effect on whats actually true and whats actually real."

    what every juror should be told!
     

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