should I wait or ask

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by cupy, Nov 9, 2010.

  1. cupy

    cupy Member

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    This guy asked me if I want to get a cup of coffee sometimes, and I said "yeah I love to" . Now its been a while I haven't heard from him so should I wait or should I ask him???like say to him If "he wants to see me"??

    What do you think guys? or what should I say???? :confused:
     
  2. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    How long has it been?
     
  3. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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    usually, someone who isn't socially retarded would set a time and date after getting a "yes" to the first question. so, he may need you to give him a clue.
     
  4. Bonkai

    Bonkai Later guys

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    "You still up for a coffee..."
     
  5. Amyoxl

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    I'd say go ahead and have a cup and don't go into caffeine withdrawal waiting for him.
     
  6. cupy

    cupy Member

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    Its almost 2 weeks and I thought he is gonna say something ....
     
  7. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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    he sucks at life
     
  8. cupy

    cupy Member

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    yeah he is..
     
  9. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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    are you a native english speaker? the reason i ask is b/c if not the culture of dating may be different your country. is it appropriate for women to approach men in this way?
     
  10. cupy

    cupy Member

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    No I'm not we both have different nationality
     
  11. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    Back when I was drinkin I got a girls number 3 times and lost it all 3 times. Part of the reason I quit drinking. Sometimes something happens and we need help from the girl to get some
     
  12. Heat

    Heat Smile, it's contagious! :) Lifetime Supporter

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    " I am going out for a coffee, would you like to join me?" :)
     
  13. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    Would love to but I got a meeting in 25 minutes. Maybe tomorrow
     
  14. Heat

    Heat Smile, it's contagious! :) Lifetime Supporter

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    That would be lovely Jo King. :)
     
  15. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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    well, if you feel it is culturally appropriate i'd say something to him like the suggestions others have given.
     
  16. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    it depends on how attractive you are.
     
  17. cupy

    cupy Member

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    I feel so nervous I always thinking like usually guy ask girl for that, but this time I will ask him if he still wants to meet for coffee.. =)
     
  18. Sam_Stoned

    Sam_Stoned Senior Member

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    haha, that's true!
     
  19. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    Now that's a bit harsh....

    One could easily say that the OP sucks at life too then, for being so indecisive and meek.
     
  20. cupy

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    To I'minmyunderwear and Sam_Stoned If I'm not attractive why would he ask me first time??
     

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