Bi-curious not sure what to do

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by randomdude1525, Nov 11, 2010.

  1. randomdude1525

    randomdude1525 Guest

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    Hi, im 17 and bi-curious i think. Never been with a girl or boy, and i dont know anyone in a similar position as me, and im just wondering what do i do with regards to knowing this. I think i'd like somebody to talk to in a similar situation who could advise me on how to go about things relationship-wise. Thanks.
     
  2. EnchantingGypsy

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    I started out the same as you. Except that I am a girl who fell in love with another girl. I didn't have to have any sexual intamacies with her to know that I liked her. And once I did, it confirmed my feelings. Just let your heart flow and you will now once you meet someone right for you. Don't be in a rush, because that will always screw you over.
     
  3. randomdude1525

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    Thanks for the reply. I know people say don't be in a rush to do anything, but i've never had a gf or bf in the past, and im really looking to start something up in the near future. As i said i don't know anyone who is gay or bi, so i cant really go to them for advice or things.
     
  4. KewlDewd66

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    There is little anyone can really tell you that will make your life easier here. You want to find a bf or gf? Cool. Get going, post a profile on a few dating sites, join a gay sport club. Or any club that might be along with your interests. Check your local LGBT listings. You are good at something? Offer to share your skills and knowledge with gay dudes (or dudettes) who would like to learn those.

    In other words, meet interesting people and see where this takes you to...

    KD
     
  5. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Well I was like you in my teens and in the end when I was 19 answered an ad and spent the weekend with this big black guy - he had a huge cock too! But it was good and I never regretted it.

    I'm now 59 and had many more m2f liasons/relationships than m2m, and have been happily married the last 18 years. We now play together in a three-sum with another bi-guy.

    I feel that it is quite normal to like both sexes - if we like the human body then enjoy all aspects. My wife likes cocks, why shouldn't I also.

    My advice would be to go for it, just be careful with your health, play safe, best to find someone near your own age at first.

    Good luck - PM me if you want any other suggestions,

    Simon
     
  6. randomdude1525

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    How do i go about finding anyone my own age? Im not confident enough to go out activley searching or meeting anyone online. How do i entice them to me?
     
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