Dearest Friends, Girls and Boys, Which do you think is the more intimate, deep kissing or fucking? Krissy ))
Actually, you're confusing intimacy with foreplay/sex. Intimacy begins with talking about things that matter and includes doing things for the other person.
intimacy = feeling close to another person, belonging together kissing and fucking = physical contact. When people feel intimate their physical contact usually starts from touching then might go to hugging>kissing>fucking. Each of those feels intense but fucking is as close as you can get with someone physically. For me the kissing/touching part is enjoyable because I know there is more to follow. I don't understand why most people skip those and go right to fucking unless it is an airplane toilet sex (and such) and there is not much time left so I say both
I said both, but really the answer I would put isn't here. Intimacy is not in the action itself, but how it's done. You can kiss with a lot of passion, or none at all. You can fuck with pure lust, or you can make love with someone. The amount of intimacy is in the amount of connection you feel with someone.
Kissing is much more intimate, hands down. Fucking is a physical act involving body parts. Kissing is an emotional act involving heart parts. Now, if you had asked me about love making, my answer might have been different.
I have only kissed, and compared to an ejaculatory orgasm, it seemed like a completely different area of my brain that was aroused. Kissing feels more "mental" and "profound." It almost reminds me, for some reason, of the effects of amphetamine. Orgasm, on the other hand, feels more visceral and sensory. I actually would rate my first good kiss higher than the average orgasm by far, and not just because it was with another person, but of the weird, chemical-like nature of it.
