Why do nice guys always get fucked over?

Like you can be the sweetest guy and do watever you can for her but its never good enough and in the end your left out on your ass. ijust dont understand

 

Because "nice guys" are usually needy, manipulative, passively aggressive psychos.

 

Or they choose the wrong kind of girl, a girl who is a bitch instead of a 'nice girl'

And no one wants someone who does 'everything for them'. Most of us women like to do things ourselves occasionally.

 

Women like excitement.

 

Cos it just devolves into a mother son type relationship and there is plenty of time for that for them later

Or its just too boring

Or unlike you they've spent most of their lives with other chics so are a bit fed up with that kind of attitude

Or they need a Man to sort out the other dickhead guys

 

Also, for me whilst I want someone to be nice - in that they won't hit, lie, or cheat etc, I'm not someone who can deal with too much sweetness, and too much sensitivity. So in that way, I don't like ''nice''.

 

That guy sounds like a girls BFF!!!!!!! :biggrin:

but not like the sexinator... :frown:

 

b/c you're 16 and both girls and guys your age suck at relationships

 

Pretty much.

And if you are needy and clingy, that would be a deal-breaker for sure.

 

also..pretty much

my son will be 15 in 4 weeks...he blows off his girlfriend all the time yet she keeps on knocking at the door...

 

because it's not sexy, it's boring, and she has nothing to chase after if you just make everything easy. you can remain nice -- just be selfish and dont give in or bend over all the time.

 

Like adults are any better

 

every once in awhile blow her off for your bros, then come back and say 'bitch I want that pussy.'

 

This is a good answer.


And to the OP; don't feel bad man, most women never know what they want.

 

i know what i want!...sometimes :S

 

because they let themselves get fucked over.

 

Im nice and I dont get fucked over nearly enough

or under

or sideways

or even upside down

 

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We don't always, I promise. :sunny:

Nice guys are typically the guys that want to take care of and be taken care of. Girls your age are mostly looking to get beat up like Rihanna and Eminem tell them is the ideal relationship. (I mean that more emotionally than physically.)

Further examples:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GCMcJaxdp58"]YouTube - Nicki Minaj - Right Thru Me (with lyrics)


I've heard an adage that went something like: "Every girl wants a bad boy; every woman wants a good man."

But not every girl has been suckered in by the idea that drama = passion = romance. So the trick is finding them.

As you get older, more and more of them will exist. But if you were never taught to treat women like they are objects, or other males with anger; to be an Edward; surely, there are women out there that have never been taught to be a Bella.

 

I don't want to say it is an age thing but I do feel it has an influence on these situations. Maturity may in fact be a better phrase than age.

The bad boy or party girl are all great until they are no longer fun. In the end most people want as a long term partner the nice guy or gal with a few quirks to keep things fun and interesting.

 

thats why i havnt been dating the last 4 years, lost interest in dating ppl my age way back in highschool. Just gotta wait for everyone to grow up