My girlfriend and I have been having sex for quite some time now, however, just recently she has had an episode where she just can't do anything sexual. Not only between the two of us, but she has also stopped masturbating. She gets very "freaked out" at the thought of sex, and finds it unpleasant during. We both love each other very much, and she just wants to get back to our old sex life. Has anybody else had this problem? If so, how can it be resolved?
its probably just hormones.. have you ever got that guilt feeling after busting your own nuts. Kinda like that whats the use of all this, I make this stuff come out my body, it does what for me?, take up time, energy, oh it feels good but then I feel so dirty after.... Might be like this for her.. Im sure its normal or maybe she wants to know if youre interested in her, for other things besides sex..
Talk to her, ask her why is finds it unpleasant, or just freaked out by it. Sometimes it could be stress, something happening, or just her body. But you need to talk to her, and see what there is you could do to help her, communication is the best key on to figuring out how you and she can help her with this stage.
i was molested as a child ans sometimes i go through similar episodes for short periods of time. when im normal however i enjoy sex and im quite sexually active diffidently talk to here and be supportive.