It's strange. I have fallen for about three girls in my life where the third one is my current crush. To me, when it comes to being attracted to someone, it's the girls. At the same time, I can find guys to be hot, and I am for sexual relations with a guy as well. The problem is that I prefer sexual relations with a person I am in a relationship with. I just never seem to fall for any guys or have any sort of crushes and such. It makes me wonder if I am really attracted to them, or just to their bodies. I know I shouldn't be focused on labels, but it seems difficult to determine where I lie. Honestly, I feel weird about the whole thing. Should the feelings I have for the girls I have fallen for, be similar if I were to fall for a guy? Perhaps i am overthinking the whole thing.
what i brought from you, IF YOU WERE ATTRACTED TO MEN, is that you havent found the one. this may also applies towards woman. any any case, just find the one you love and trust most, just dont get into something thing you might regret later like paternity,
Funny isnt it, how we can get muddled up by own self just as much as by others. You've started a thread in a bisexual forum asking 'am I attracted to guys or not?'. With the fact that this thread event exists, we can rule out 100% straight
Dude: Life is very little about having it our way with our "preferrence" riding high. Despite all the buzz to the contrary. You find males (and their bodies) hot. So, you can either have sex with them or not. Entirely up to you and them. Will you ever develop a crush for another dude? Who knows? Men are different and their crushes are different, too. I would not overthink this too much. You are a male. You ought to be able to have a fulfilling sexual experience without being deeply in love with the other dude. Sexual attraction does it... KD
Find a guy you feel comfortable with (preferably one who you know is gay or bi) and try it out. See what happens. As Ms. Frizzle would say, (lolz) "Take chances, make mistakes!" And don't think about it to much. Go with what you feel, not what you think. But make sure you play it safe!!! USE A CONDOM! REALLY. EVEN WITH ORAL. And labels don't matter. You're alllowed to be curious without being bisexual. Life is weird. Enjoy the frivolousness.
Perhaps If You Were To Take On Board The Advice You Give To Others, The Whole Ugly Incident With The University Counsellor Would Not Have Occured.... Just A Passing Thought.... Cheers Glen.
