i am 63 my asian wife is 40. she likes lots more sex than i can give her so i let her have affairs. she always tells me about what she does which really excites me. there is a guy who has had the hots for her for a long time who she is going to screw, well he said he would like his 23 year old cousin who is totally inexperienced to join in. my wife is interested in this but kinda worried. i know she would probably enjoy it. anyone have any suggestions. she has never had two guys at once. p.s. i cant send private messages
If your marriage is secure then don't worry, just make sure you have ground rukes set up. With us the main rule is that you can have sex with anyone you wish, but it has to be in front of the other.:love:
At the moment my wife and I are in a three-sum with another bi-guy; we have sorta rules set and so far we have only played with others as a couple. I am 59 and my wife is 47, and being in some decline sexually I though it might also be good for her to go with a younger guy. My suggestion, unless you are repelled by same-sex activity, would be to present and take part - can be a real turn-on just watching. That way you remain close and perhaps also find a whole new sexual dimension. Of course the real issue here with multiple partners if they are occasional ones is the sexual health. If you can keep to regular buddies and everyone gets tested then there is little problem and lots of pluses! :sunny: Simon
