Have a boyfriend...but masturbate to women?!

I have a boyfriend of 5 months and as far as I have known...I have always been straight. But for about the last 2 years I have been looking at nude female pictures...it doesnt even have to be movies....real pictures, hentai....any appealing naked photo of a woman would turn me on. With my ex a few years ago I would think of being with a woman when I was with him to get me off...after he cheated on me and I stayed with him. I am drawn towards gay tv shows, gay people..men and women...etc. My boyfriend has jokingly asked if I was a lesbian cuz of these things...but doesnt know that I am attracted to females. I have never been with a woman and was never abused or anything weird like that. I had a fairly normal childhood. The only thing I can think of was when I was 7 or 8 a neighbor girl/friend spent the night and she had a game to play...ummm it was to massage each other and she said to put things down each others pants...so we did. I dont remember anything really happening, but I did feel guilty abuout it so much so that I thought I did something wrong and I had to tell my mom...but never did cuz I felt ashamed. Yet I dont remember feeling that weird when it was happening. *sigh* Now I do orgasm with my boyfriend without thinking of girls...and am attracted to guys. But to masterbate I need lesbian photos or nude women. What is up with that?

 

Marry me?



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I think your feelings are normal. First of all males do not have the best looking sex organs. I mean it’s a piece of flesh hanging from us. Most girls I know get turn on with girl girl porn but are not bi at all.

 

Hey! I do the same!
I'm not a lesbian but I think women are just more physically attractive then men are
women are beautiful and have beautiful, graceful bodies. I think it's more sexy to look at a woman than some hairy muscular guy swinging his shlong around.

You're not weird or the only person like this!!!
Go with it! Maybe you could enjoy yourself in front of your guy- I'm sure he'd be turned on!

 

Crazy, that's exactly the same thing that's goin on with me.
i've just declared myself to be bisexual, so much easier, I hardly think about it anymore.

 

yeah, it sounds like you're bisexual to me. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. Think about it this way - you can double the chances of finding a good partner!

personally, I'm not really sure about my sexual orientation. I mean, women are very beautiful to look at, but I don't really find them sexual. But hey, that's just me.

 

Also, even if you don't actually want to get it on with women, or don't want to think of yourself as bisexual, whatever fantasies get you off are fine.

 

Don't ever be worried about your sexuality. it is as it is, and it is there for you to enjoy. Also, forget the "normal" thing that has screwed the world. By following and honouring your heartfelt feelings you will experience life's extasies. By denying them you'll experience life's agony.

 

Girls just have more sex appeal, it's as simple as that

 

pfff, girls have emore sex appeal.... obviously you've never seen my sexy body :H

 

where i live, almost all girls are bi, and it is just the norm, and no one questions it, just a way of life here.

 

You live in heaven?





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This is how being bi-sexual started for me. I 've been attracted to women for atleast 1/2 of my life. I started minorly fooling around with girls around 16 or 17. I still haven't progressed that far, but I'm happy with my boyfriend so, I mainly am only interested in evaluationg women sexually now(compared to men). I look at women much more, watch porn, look at porn, little experimentation with friends, etc. It keeps it simple. Even if you aren't bi, who cares? Do what you want; it's your fantasy.

 

why do people often assimilate lesbinaism or female bisexuality with abuse or neglect (especially sexual or by a male)? i know this isn't often the assumption, but it seems so much a normal mentality.

 

Being bisexual is the only way to go! But I still love cock best....

 

who cares ,young girls have to find out about sex ,they think difrent than boys , <hope.>a girls body is beautiful , so go with flow ,PEACE lol

 

It is well known psychologically that at puberty females develop intense feelings and love for their friends. Some retain those feelings, others "grow out" of them.

No great mystery, but plenty of socio-religious misunderstanding surrounds it.

 

Don't think ur lesbian....

i mean when ur horny every peice of flesh is good to get off...

males,females... who carese as long as u get turned on!!!

 

hello miss-tambourine well said couldent have put it better myself , LOL PEACE,

 

yeah I'm the same... I masturbate fantasizing about women and men and I have a boyfriend who is quite fulfilling without any women hmm
bisexual-men-loving-women-fantasizing-sexual is what we are.