Hi im cancer man,born 10 july 1977 in south-africa 830am,my girl gemini born 27 may 1979 south-africa. are we compatable? it seems im so sensitive or she is so cold and mean sometimes,keep clashing. we had a huge fight again,and she is ignoring me. fine,i just want to know,in astrology , looking at other planets aswell,were we compatble or not,if we can seem to work through our differences,hopefully if she will wana talk to me again,or should i jst give up and move on.
Without knowing your Rising Signs it would be impossible to see if you have a chance. It is my experience that it is our Rising Signs that fall for each other. Our Rising Signs are the Feelings side of us, how we love, hate, and feel toward others. You have 12 degrees Taurus for your Moon Sign and 18 d. Cancer for your Sun Sign. She has 22 d. Gemini Moon and 5 d. Gemini Sun (Traits will Blend with Taurus). Compatibility is not a valid term when it comes to getting along with others, mainly because we can get along with anyone if we want to. And from my perspective we have 3 main areas that we can connect with others: Our 3 Guides (Rising, Moon and Sun Signs) are our strongest energies and Behaviors, so with that many possibilities we should be able to connect somehow. A lot of our problems with others stems from our own immaturity or selfishness, we don't want to give up enough of ourselves to truly care for that other person. Lets face it some Signs seem more selfish than others but that is only because of their energy: Fire Signs come off as very selfish because THEY have a need to do, to be active and on the go and from other Signs perspective they are full of them selves. Earth Signs just want to be comfortable and connected to good ole secure earth so they won't be moved to do the things others Signs have a need to do. Air Signs are everywhere into everything which gives them the reputation of being aloof and cold by others that don't have Air in them. Water Signs are seen as too moody and wishy-washy, changing things all the time based on their moods, which can drive others crazy. I say you know yourself better than anyone and if there isn't enough confort between you and her than it probably won't last very long. With Cancer and Taurus you definitely are Sensitive to how others treat you. Taurus likes to be connected (be loved) so it may be hard from that part of you to let go.
Thank you very much for your answer. it is true, i believe that we can get along with anybody if we want to,and want to work through our differences. I appreciate your answer and effort. Im maybe a bit slow or just new to astrology but, the answer u gave me about the degrees,is that my rising signs?
based on this table,am i correct to say,my risighn sign is ARIES. i FOUND THIS website,they appear to be based in canada. johannesburg is 10hours ahead of canada time. i was born 10july 1977 at 830am. so,in canada time it was 1030pm.yet i dont know if my calculation is correct or if canada time changes in july. Sun Sign-> Aries Taurus Gemini Cancer Leo Virgo Libra Scorpio Sagittarius Capricorn Aquarius Pisces 4am-6am Aries Taurus Gemini Cancer Leo Virgo Libra Scorpio Sagittarius Capricorn Aquarius Pisces 2am-4am Pisces Aries Taurus Gemini Cancer Leo Virgo Libra Scorpio Sagittarius Capricorn Aquarius 12am-2am Aquarius Pisces Aries Taurus Gemini Cancer Leo Virgo Libra Scorpio Sagittarius Capricorn 10pm-12am Capricorn Aquarius Pisces Aries Taurus Gemini Cancer Leo Virgo Libra Scorpio Sagittarius 8pm-10pm Sagittarius Capricorn Aquarius Pisces Aries Taurus Gemini Cancer Leo Virgo Libra Scorpio 6pm-8pm Scorpio Sagittarius Capricorn Aquarius Pisces Aries Taurus Gemini Cancer Leo Virgo Libra 4pm-6pm Libra Scorpio Sagittarius Capricorn Aquarius Pisces Aries Taurus Gemini Cancer Leo Virgo 2pm-4pm Virgo Libra Scorpio Sagittarius Capricorn Aquarius Pisces Aries Taurus Gemini Cancer Leo Noon -2pm Leo Virgo Libra Scorpio Sagittarius Capricorn Aquarius Pisces Aries Taurus Gemini Cancer 10am- Noon Cancer Leo Virgo Libra Scorpio Sagittarius Capricorn Aquarius Pisces Aries Taurus Gemini 8am-10am Gemini Cancer Leo Virgo Libra Scorpio Sagittarius Capricorn Aquarius Pisces Aries Taurus 6am-8am Taurus Gemini Cancer Leo Virgo Libra Scorpio Sagittarius Capricorn Aquarius Pisces Aries
ok,the table didnt come out as i wanted,here is the link: http://www.astrologyzine.com/rising-sign-table.shtml
Well, my girl is a Cancer, and I'm a Gemini; and we work rather well. It's funny you mentioned it, because I'm also the more emotional one, and she's the more cold one. We don't fight though, haven't in our four years together. I'm not big on astrology though, and didn't have a clue what a rising sign was before this thread.
hi Duck. Yeah,im not big into astrology either,but i guess,based on this website,you cant just look at your sun sign to understand yourself or your partner. in the end,if you cn work through your differences thats what counts. she may be sun cancer,but she has traits of some other sign(rising sign) that makes her to appear cold. i think
