Girls Masturbating in Dresses

If you were putting any mental effort into this at all, you would have picked up on the fact that I was making a real effort to make friends and connect with you by putting significant effort into a post on a subject that you seemed to care something about. Instead, you ignored all of it except the part you didn't like. That's not what normal people with social skills do when they are here to make friends and have real conversations, rather than (repeatedly) push links that benefit them financially.

Every time my PM and e-mail buddies leave town, I make the mistake of making a lot of posts, and get reminded that most of the people here (not all; you know who you are) are the most unthinking, unreasonable, obnoxious human beings I have ever encountered in my lifetime.

You happened to be the unlucky one who got on my last nerve. Fortunately for me, everybody I can openly and honestly talk to (privately) in a rational way is back online this weekend. I'm tired of this shit, I'm having PMS, and I want to deal only with people who care if I live or die.

Have a good life. Or not. It makes no difference to me.

 

Dearest Karen_J,

I'm at work and very busy right now, but your personal pain in your last post came through and really stung me. And I, somehow, feel guilty. And I don't want you to stew any longer, if I can possibly help it. And I won't be able to focus on my work for the rest of the day (California here) until I get this post out.

I ask you to lighten up, please. I've read over my recent posts and fail to find where I triggered a rise in you. Your posts seemed fine to me, but then things quickly went downhill. Why?

I confess to fun, obnoxious banter, sometimes, but never, hopefully, to the point of hurting anyone's feelings.

In a previous post, I confessed that you had made a point that "flashing" could also include a woman flashing her bare breasts at a man -something that I am now intrigued about, and might even try, if I got caught up in the moment and if felt right. But prior to your post, I had assumed that flashing could only be lifting up my skirt, something I would never do.

As for pushing links for financial benefit: Posting a link (to one of our previous posts) in this forum, and then emailing to those express an interest a free public domain mp3 masturbation soundtrack would hardly qualify as spamming for profit. I invite you to email me on this, do a virus scan on my emailed mp3 file, and report your findings to the rest of the forum. And if you're an avid masturbator like me, you'll probably find the mp3 file an absolute gas. We compare notes with each other in this forum, to enhance our masturbation experiences, right?

We also sometimes post a link to one of our (or someone else's) previous posts simply because some of them are extremely verbose, and anyone who goes through that link will also find a wealth comments from other members of our forum. That way, we don't run roughshod over anyone's thread and turn it in another direction.

I hope this explanation helps.

Your friend,

HotCaliforniaGirl

 

you really didn't know that a woman could flash her boobs?

 

Well, I did know that, but never really gave it any thought.

And the discussion in this thread began with the idea of women, without panties, flashing men by lifting up their dress -something I would never do.

But when Karen_J mentioned the idea of women flashing, simply by exposing their boobs, the idea of flashing, somehow just seemed to intrigue and excite me.

I'll probably never do it, but, there again, I might if the scene was wild and fun, and it simply felt right.

 

What a sweet thing for you to post! I feel much better now. I'm sorry that I upset you.

In print, you can't pick up on tone or facial expressions, so I try to explain how I'm feeling as clearly as I can. I'm aware that certain things tend to read more harsh than they sound when spoken, but I'm not sure there is any way to fix that.

It's great to wrap up this week on a more positive note. HF is the only place I ever go where nearly every word I speak is criticized by someone, and it can be hard for me to take. It's probably time for me to take a break from it for a while. The harsh, hostile atmosphere provokes me to say things that I almost never say in real life. I find the deep cynicism to be highly contagious.

I grew up in a community where nearly all the social anger came from the old right-wing prudes and religious folks. Most younger people that I knew were very positive about having a good time and defying the old traditions and values. More recently, the venom seems to be flying about equally in both directions. I spent two years living in Asheville, NC, where I encountered many hippies and pseudo-hippies who were as angry at life and disrespectful of others as anything you can imagine. I found that I had to remove myself from that place (partly) because they were dragging my attitude down to their pathetic level. I don't want that to happen again.

Have a great weekend!

Karen

 

"The cow is giving Kerosene,
The kid can't read he's 17,
The words he knows are all obscene,
But it's alright," Touch of Grey (Greatful Dead)

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

Hey, I'm still in shock that somebody here cared that somebody else was offended by a post! Considering some of the subjects that we discuss (peace, love, nonviolent protest, sexual liberation), this can be an extremely tough crowd. Complaining about something usually gets you more of the same.

I'm impressed with anyone who makes a real effort to make a situation better. I respect that kind of maturity.
:grouphug: