First let me say that I respect all people and think we all should live in the way that makes us comfortable. I have an issue that I need advise on from ladies that view themselves as lesbians. my issue: I am a 49 yr old straight guy in a sales job. About 11/2 yrs ago I met at a customer a very hip, unique lady 38 yrs old. When I let it be known that I was interested in her to someone who knew her I was told that I "did not have the equipment she was interested in". To make this short we began to share explicit emails and pics. She shared with me that she did have a girlfriend and had been with her for 6 years. Then she asked me to lunch on day and had me follow her in my car. She took me to an isolated place and let me know that she wanted me there in the car. I was taken aback as we had only shared the emails, but I turned down the gift in a very loving way as I did not want to be an issue for her and her friend. Since then I have developed feelings for her and we still communicate and see each other in our jobs. Twice more she has wanted to meet me for sex but both times it did not happen. What advice can you folks give me? I do not want to break them up but I am really attracted to her. There are many other details but it would take forever to list them. I truly value your input. Thanks
i don't understand what advice you are asking for. If you wanna be with her, than say yes and break them up. If you wanna be a nice person and don't wanna break them up then fight your feelings and don't break them up. It's up to you to decide which you want more.
