Would prefer girls only opinion or men whom are understanding of this topic. I'm in sensitive mode atm and not to sure where to direct this "issue" next. I either have a) anorgasmia or b) may need reference to sex a coach. I'm not sure if option b) helps or how to solve option a) that's if there is a way to "cure" it. I've been solo masturbating (not frequently) for about 4 years, I have followed many techniques and all of them are not working in achieving a desired outcome, I usually "fade" before the climax, I relax my mind and body and have no outside interruptions that could prevent me from enjoyment. I also have no previous psychological, or abusive that I am aware that would prevent me from orgasming, I am not sure what the cause is, it can't because of lack of exploring or skill as its something I enjoy, its a pleasure not a chore (just except the frustration of not being able to climax *sigh*) I am at a loss as to what I can do. Please answer this question honestly or otherwise direct me to another forum that may help. Tnx.