lol yeah..people that consistantly date douchebags=red flag. i've been single for over a year to rid myself of all that negative energy. I think i'm officially over my douchebag phase.
The scary thing is all of the posts I did on this thread were the same person. The girlfriend I had before that had borderline personality disorder and banged 5 other guys before dumping me. She told me by saying, "Hey Rev, I'm on the Pill now." "Really? Why?" "I'm fucking other people." Stay Brown, Rev J
thats because women generally prefer douchebags and assholes, at least until they start thinking about settling down and having kids. damn. going on the Pill to fuck other people=red flag. what a bitch.
Trust for whom? If you mean in general, as in they have a hard time trusting anyone, then no, not in the slightest... However if it was a trust issue specifically with me, then hell yes... One is a glitch that is really understandable in this day and age, the other is a slap in the face to the person you wish to be with.
They are really flirty and forward with you, but then get all defensive or even aggressive or angry when you do it back. I mean are we doing that or not? You hafta pick one. Just in case there's some confusion ill make an example: I meet a girl at a mall, and we are talking and she starts dropping hints, rubbing her hands over my body, or pushing her body against mine. Things like that. Then later I try to do something innocent even as rub her shoulders while we stand in line and she bites my head off "no touchin on the first date, what are you doing?". Ohh. Yeah. And they are obviously sleeping with another woman. Even if you convince them to come back to the winning team its just too much drama
Girls who complain when I tell a waitress thank you or call her darlin. Girls who complain when I say bless you when someone sneezes even if I don't know them. Girls who complain about me holding doors open for other people, but literally will stop and stand at a door til I open it for them. Girls who look at me like I'm stupid for standing up for the national anthem, even if its only on tv. All this comes from the same girl but they are all signs to bad problems with possessiveness I think.
Controlling is not the same as drinking. People who have a problem with one are likely to have other problems, including the other, but they're not always going to be linked. Drinking alone is not always a bad thing, because it's not social doesn't change it one bit. I'm not an alcoholic, and while I generally might prefer softer alcohol alone, I don't see that liquor is unacceptable, there's no reason that it's more ok to get drunk with other people than alone, at all. Drunk is drunk. I see that it's a red flag, but it doesn't have to be. I go months without drinking, and today I was drinking strait overproof rum before my 8AM finial exam....