stalker/someone who wont let go?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Serenade, Dec 2, 2004.

  1. Serenade

    Serenade Member

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    my ex girlfriend refused to let it go that i broke up with her, my reason was because i found out that she was messing around with another guy. Now shes come back saying shes sorry and stuff like that but i wont talk to her or anything like that now shes almost stalking me calling me at all hours of the night leaving messages...... its getting to the point where im thinking restraining order hahaha no but really im contemplating it. As far as relationships go i've had a hard time trusting people but i like meeting new girls that i can be friends with so its all good. My question is anyone have problems with an ex that wont except that your relationship is through and done with?
     
  2. innocentpoison333

    innocentpoison333 Member

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    Lol i never really had a stalker ....But use to be one lol i use to like this kid and i would sit in front of his house in the pouring rain and stare into his window. I stole his shirt from his locker, a juice box from him, i would write poems about him, draw his picture and so on lol....This was when i was about 15 so yeah i was little immature and weird maybe, but i really had a crush on this kid. I would spy on him a lot too, like when hed be working with my dad lol i was crazy not anymore though, cuz thats just creepy lol
     
  3. clockworkorangeagain

    clockworkorangeagain femme fatale

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    haha thats funny...

    ...i have liked a guy for far too long - longer than the normal person would, but i never have stalked him...i just have real feelings for him unfortunately. i wish i didn't. and he never sets me straight, just leads me on...last time i saw him he told me we have a "connection" - arrrghhh! Asshole.

    i have even considered hypnosis to forget about him, and i am so silly cos i never just come right out and ask him where we stand...
    all i know is he obviously likes seeing me when we see each other, but he should know how i feel so i dont understand what he's doing...anyways, fuck it...
     
  4. AT98BooBoo

    AT98BooBoo Senior Member

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    I have a suggestion that might work to counteract a female stalker. Start acting like a really needy,clingy wuss. That will turn her off to you. Women like a challenge and if you don't return calls,act like you don't care etc that will make you seem like a challenge. That in turn will make her chase you.. Got me?

    I know this seems illogical but then again have you ever meet any women that were logical?
     
  5. AUST1N

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    *newsflash!*
    I am currently accepting stalkers (female only plz). Feel free to stalk me anytime day or night =P
     
  6. clockworkorangeagain

    clockworkorangeagain femme fatale

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    ahhh so true, the chase can absolutely be better
     
  7. kindwoman

    kindwoman Sista Golden Hair

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    I am an online stalker from afar, I am in lust with this totally hot man who lives across the country. I asked permission to be his stalker though & he doesn't mind. :) (To be honest, I think he likes it!)
     
  8. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    When I was younger, I was dating this guy and we were together for about 2 years and he was cheating on me and was very manipulative and a liar..Well, i broke up with him...and for about a year he stalked me. He would come by my work, leave notes on my car, follow me, call my house constantly, we wrote whore on a piece of paper and stuck it on my car, and other things.. He was a complete nutcase...
    he also called me from a phone at a hospital and told me he was there because he tried to kill himself, and I told him good, its too bad he didnt succeed...cause he was lying he just used a phone there to make it look like he did...
    It was scary at times, but I didnt allow him to see that I was scared or anything..and then all of a sudden, it just stopped and I never heard from him again...
     

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