theres this girl who i can have casual sex with. but she is really messed up now, extremely depressed, possibly suicidal. i dont really wanna be drawn into her mess. but i would like to have sex with her. what do yas think?
dont get on a mental level with her then...dont say anything in a way that will make her think that you are heading in the way of a relationship...be purely honest at all times.. if you talk to her about her problems dont let her become to reliant on you. think. Are your intentions moral?
Stay away man, even though you only want her for sex she may become attached and end up getting hurt anyway, and if she is suicidal the last thing she needs is a false hope from you. Something like that could push her over the edge.
I suggest you don't have sex with her... probably the last thing she needs is casual sex... usually the only ppl that can handle that are those who are very confident in their lives and who they are... having fuck buddies, etc. can start to mess with your mind if it's not totally stable anyway. what she probably needs is a good friend, to make her feel loved, not like a sexual object. If she's searching for acceptance or anything she could get up some false hope, as AUST1N said... So.. my suggestion would be to either be her friend or stay away... but no sex unless you want commit yourself to her in other ways as well.
don't hurt her. don't add to her problems, but remember that right now what she needs the most right now is probably just a friend.
I agree with the others, casual sex is great, but sounds like you need to steer clear of that situation. Sorry bud.
I concur have you thought about how it might affect her? It might seriously aggravate her depression and suicidal tendencies. She might feel like a whore, or like no one will ever love her, they just want to use her. This is not a good situation to get into. If you really want to be able to fuck her, wait until she's better. Be there as a friend for her first, and wait until she's a helluva lot more stable before you put any move whatsoever on her.
