attracted to my best friends little sister

well im sure of posted this same type topic before so here is kinda an update

Ive been talking with my friends sister every day she openly said to me that she was attracted to me and if i were to ask her out she would dump her current bf and go with me... OOOOk.. well i didnt want her to do that, i told her to stay with her bf and if they break up i wouldnt want it to be because of me
Well i expressed to her that it would be weird dating her for a few reasons... one shes only 15 and im 19.. (i know age is just a number).. two im best friends with her big bro... she told me that they would be happy if she dated me cuz i know how to treat a girl and im not a dick like her ex's.. i mean i love the girl but i wouldnt want any of that in interfere with our relationship
tell me what you think

 

no way...young girls get so attached to who they like, you would be asking for serious trouble.

Plus, well hooking up with your friends sister could lead to seeing a resemblance in the faces

 

This is your best friends sister. What happens if things go wrong between you and her? It could completely screw up your friendship. Especially if she decides to be vindictive and lies about you (hey, some chicks are that evil. So are some guys)

Also. she's 15, and you're 19? In a lot of areas that's not even close to legal. She's not mature enough for a 19 year old guy. Unless she's some freak of nature in maturity levels (and if she's willing to break up with her current bf just for you, I highly doubt she's all that mature) she's waaaaay too young for you. There's still so many developmental things going on at that age, she still doesn't really know who she is. Hell, at 19, I still don't really know who I am, but I'm a helluva lot closer than I was at 15.

No no no. Do not touch this one with a ten foot pole. Tell her you only want to be friends with her or something to fend her off.

 

forget about it.

 

Yeah I would stay away. 15 is a bit young. They have more lust then love at that age.

 

Wait a year or two and then ask how she feels

 

idk, i mean who knows, it may b nice for a time, and u may b good together...but a lot of things were mentioned that id agree with, for one younger girls DO get easily attached, i mean, i know im only a yr older, but iv grown up a lot since i was 15 when it comes to liking guys...and that is defanitly one thing i noticed. its also a young relationship in the fact of BOTH ur ages, so its not gonna last, and when that happens there will b strain on ur friendship with her bro, and if value ur friendship with him at all id not go for his sis...idk about u, but my major rule while young is friends first, cus guys will come and go (in ur case girls)


but it IS ur choice, if u think things would b fine between u and the bro, or u think shes a bit more mature, which is possible, or u really think it could b a fullfilling relationship, then go ahead =) just b careful and think things through first.
by the way, i think it was a great idea that u told her not to break up with her bf for u, that was smart =)

 

i recommend you not to do it because girls at that age dont really know what real love is so hey! they just like to play around

 

thank you guys for your opinions i was thinking a long the same lines as all of you guys so thats where im gonna take it... thanks

 

anytime

 

id probly have to agree.. although i think the age isnt the most important thing.. i think her age shouldnt matter as much as who she is to you.. kinda.. like we dont know what shes like, personality and maturity wise.. so itd really come downt o that more..
i started going out with my girlfriend when she was 14 and weve been over 3yrs now..

 

I'm sorry....
but I think a fifteen year old girl can know what love is. In fact, I know so, because I experienced it. And I still am very much in love with the guy.

 

I'm sorry but this all sounds like a treatable perversion to me.

 

It's "Bro's" befoe "HOE'S" man! It really is. You can ALWAYS get more Tang.
You can't get more Bro's as easy.

 

i never said NONE of them dont know, i believe u that u do, but some, a lot of them, dont.