Emotional Abuse

How could I tell if my girlfriend was emotional abusing me?

 

if she using her emotions to over react in situations, or shes making you cry your eyes out, belittling you in arguments, breaking up with you and returning after your beaten. and you put up with it..

 

whether she beat you on her period.

 

If she causes you to omit the ly in certain adverbs

 

my ex was very emotional (girls), and she in turn said some very nasty things to me because of this. I certainly took it as emotional abuse, and after a few months of it (after i told her she needs to be more respectful) I had to break up with the bitch cuz she was just too damn mean.

so i did tell her, she just didnt listen. hope yours actually listens and is respectful of her significant other.

 

If you're asking this question, she almost definitely is.

I think what would be more efficient though, than us listing many of thousands of ways she could be abusing you, is if you told us why you think she may be.

 

Well I'm not trying to talk shit
But I can never hang out with my friends unless she's there. She always have to be with me or she'll start bitching (like when I wake up and when I go to bed). I'm a bad guy if I send ten dollars on me and 97% of my pay check goes to her gas or her cigs when I'm trying to save money to move and get my license back. She'll always argue with me over stupid shit. Calls me a piece of shit. Can't talk to any of old friends that are girls. Can't leave any money in her truck unless I don't want to see it. Ruined my prom. Threatens to break up with me...Etc Etc

 

aw c;mon...you just answered your own op...the biggest mistake of my life,and there are many,was staying with an emotionally abusive **** for too many tears and too many years


get the fuck out noiw

 

I try to get out but last time she broke up with me and she wanted to get back with me she cut herself and that made me feel like shit

 

that is why they call it a ''cycle of abuse''...it keeps going round and round...dude...i missed out on the love of my life because i knocked up an abusive **** and felt i owed her...my ''love'' died in a car crash and i stayed with the **** for ten years...i would give anything to change that one decision in my life.....anything....the next time you 2 fight...use that as your exit door and never ever go back....read this

A woman awoke in the middle of the night to find that her husband was not in bed. She put on her robe and went downstairs. He was sitting at the kitchen table with a cup of coffee in front of him. He appeared to be deep in thought, staring at the wall. She saw him wipe a tear from his eye and take a sip of his coffee.
“What’s the matter, dear? Why are you down here at this time of night?” she asked.
“Do you remember twenty years ago when we were dating and you were only 17?” he asked.
“Yes, I do,” she replied.
“Do you remember when your father caught us in the back seat of my car making love?”
“Yes, I remember.”
“Do you remember when he shoved that shotgun in my face and said, ‘Either you marry my daughter or you will spend the next twenty years in jail?”
“Yes, I sure do.”
He wiped another tear from his cheek and said, “You know…I would have gotten out today.”

 

She wont do it... If she does.. its for her own benefit to see you suffer.
From my experience, she actions of cutting, hurting, talking etc... are all ways to watch you suffer and to get reactions from you.

If you 19.. get out. Doesnt matter the age,, get out. Its not good for your health, and you should not deal with this. Think of you life with her in 2, 5, 10 years? Its better to get out the quicker it is... End it all.. ignore her FULLY. If you keep contact with her it will just get worse, as she'll make more threats or run the guilt trip on you... So overall, yes I call that emotional abuse.. she needs to know and learn to over come it, while you grow you balls away from her.

 

I'll try to use our next fight to break up with her.
Maybe it will help her get her life back on track.
She even says we don't even connect anymore. That's a pretty good reason not to be with someone. I just got to remember to grow a pair

 

its the only way...it can be hard...specially if she is hot...mine was way hot so i would look at her and get horny instead of remember what a fucking nut case she actually was....do not think with your dick haha..big mistake i made:mickey:

 

I know what you mean. That's how she makes it up to me after we fight. Its hard not to think with my dick. But I've been resisting her which is pretty hard.

 

well I was right all along..

get out.. find some internet porn, beat your dick senseless, cry your eyes out, beat it some more.. dont answer her calls no more...

This nutty bitch is going to have you hemmed up with some legal shit before to long.. Cutting herself?. She can call the police claim *domestic violence*, that you did it... Guess what,, you go to jail with a bond "so high"- we can not give you advice in jail..

 

yes...the next step of the cycle is police involvement....after ten years it was the police that removed baby mama from our life.

 

so what did she do to ruin your prom?

i agree with the consensus here, get rid of the ****.

 

It's a shitty cycle. Get out! I was caught in a relationship where he hurt himself. Was a shitty cycle. Eventually I had enough, I cut him out of my life and it was much better for me that way than "trying to stay friends". When they have problems, they will bring you down with them. Cut her out, it will be hard but remember *why* you're doing it- you'll be a better person for it. Good luck

 

Set a ninja monkey on her!!!!

 

Don't let the puss drag you back in--there are several others out there.