does masturbation affect sex performance?

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by dre101, Dec 17, 2010.

  1. dre101

    dre101 Member

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    hi.. i have a hard time lasting 10 minutes wen masturbating to porno.. i usually feel the urge to ejaculate about 2 or 3 minutes in. i try to stop but then i still proceed forward i cum within 6 minutes. what should i do? since i cum fast, would this affect sexual performance??? i am a virgin
     
  2. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    When I masturbate a lot, the main difference is that it's hard for me to cum from vaginal sex. Unless, it be doggystyle with a girl with a really hot ass. I can orgasm from anal or oral sex too, usually with additional hand stimulation.

    Orgasm from missionary these days is virtually impossible for me, unless I stop masturbating to porn for 3-4 days. OR, if I'm really intimate with a girl, but that's rare. The girl I'm having sex with now is a terrorist in bed,,, none of that lovey-dovey shit.

    Why do you worry about it?

    Edit: Then again, I tend to masturbate to porn more the next couple of days after sex.
     
  3. Hugh Janus

    Hugh Janus Member

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    Don't worry. One day you will get married and really learn to genuinely hate women, then you will want to avoid sex at all costs. In the mean time make the most of what you are doing while you can.
     
  4. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Man are u for real?

    Does masturbation affect sex performance?

    No, not really, unless you are my age and recovery between orgasams takes longer.

    I read of 20 mins recovery time for 18 year olds and from 2- 4 hours for us oldies.

    Enjoy your orgasms :sunny:

    Simon
     
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    Cherea Senior Member

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  6. PineMan

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    Get yourself a FleshLight. On some sites it is described as a Sexual Technique Training Aid, which I think can be an accurate description.

    When you masturbate manually you automatically increase the pressure applied to the penis, which brings you to a climax sooner. With the FleshLight, just as with real sex, you have no control over the pressure - only the rate. As with sex it is the neural stimulation from the physical contact that causes the reaction.

    Manual masturbation is fine for a quick fix, but to really enjoy a session that compares to the real thing, and that can get you used to the actual sensations you are likely to experience, then the FleshLight is what you need.
     
  7. davethomas101

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    Pineman, I was looking at one of these on Lovehoney only yesterday, I gather you rate them rather highly ;-). What are they like to clean ?

    Cheers
     
  8. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

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    Not really any problem. I always take mine in the bath with me, and by movingin in a mastubatory sort of motion in the water, it pumps water up from the tail end, giving it a good rinse out.

    You can, of course, also run it through the hot water tap (a method, incidentally, which is also recommended to heat it up to a required warmth before usage).

    Also, if you so choose, you can always use a bottle brush, but I've never found any need to go that far.
     
  9. davethomas101

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    Cheers thanks Pineman ;-)
     

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