Ladies...great sex or your best friend

Hello Girls, just gonna go for it...if you had a choice, would you want a guy who you can have knock down ooohhh oui vay bed rockin, call him daddy, insanely satisfying sex all the time, and have an ok relationship.

I mean you guys like each other and like to be together and its just ok its not all luvie dovie and snuggling but your close and you love each other.

or

Would you rather have some guy you are with who is your best friend but theres no real passion. You love being with, but in the sheets he's a zero! I mean hes just doesn't satisfy. He tries or maybe he doesn't...sex is pretty much you let him moan and groan and do his thing cause you don't want to hurt his feelings.Not fulfilling at all.

So tell me which one you have, or want,please explain WHY. Thanks

 

Why does it have to be either/or? Surely there are many with qualities of both.

My hubby, for instance, is a powerful lover and a great friend;

We can (and do) budget and shop together, and keep house and garden, and all those other daily (some might say, bland) activities, but also introduce and experiment with new and different (some might say, wicked, night time) desires.

We go to weddings and funerals, and laugh and cry together, and travel on business trips, but also party and travel to the most romantic spots for inspirational, screaming sex.

We protect and look out for each other, and keep eah other out of harm's way, but we also allow a litttle discretion to indulge our sexual fantasies.

In short, we are best friends and passionate lovers.

 

But don't you also have a boyfriend, Amyoxl?

 

Sex can always be worked on. Genuine initial connection cannot. Give me a best friend and we can make each other into amazing lovers.

 

this.

Especially if you are willing to get really talkative during sex, telling your partner exactly what to do and how to do it and then next time they'll know

Plus serious sex isn't really my thing, my guy and I will watch cartoons or play video games or smoke weed while fooling around and be laughing our asses off lol

 

probably because "do you want to date someone with one good quality or two?" is a stupid question that doesn't facilitate discussion.

 

Yes, I do! But my husband's okay with that only adds to our sexual experience and our friendship.

 

Really if its best friends, then surely your mates?

For me a 'partner' has to be a good lover, maybe not at the very start and ever time you make love but no spark, defo not!!!

Being committed to someone who doesnt do it for you in bed and your not 'in love' with sucks-

Life is to short to be with someone who doesn't satisfy you sexually unless your not to concerned with the sexual element and in my book its pretty important like 50/50 balance-

 

I agree. It works.