Unprotected Anal dilemma

Hi Guys,

I just joined HF because I was hoping you can give me some honest advice about my issue.

I simply love anal sex. I love sticking my dick in a girls ass, love everything about it. Recently I've been seeing a married women who came to me originally because her husband wouldn't fuck her ass. I was the first to take her ass cherry and she loves it. We do it about twice a week now.

Here's my issue, I've always wore a condom during anal sex, with previous girls and the married chick I'm seeing now. She doesn't do any prep before anal (save doing #2 an hour or two before and taking a shower), in other words no enemas and I never ran into any dirty situation, my condom is always nice and clean when I pull out after 20 minutes of anal love. I guess for women it would feel almost the same for them whether or not the man wears a condom but I'm very curious to know what it feels like to go bearback in my girls ass. I have to say that I don't really feel much of the warmth you'd expect when I'm wearing a condom and I just feel like I'm missing out on the whole experience when wearing a condom.

My issue is that I'm scared of getting a UTI or some other disease. She is clean from all disease but my doc says that even if she is clean you can still get something from anal sex due to the microscopic fecal matter.

What about you guys? do you wear a condom during anal? or do you take the risk? I never contracted any STD and I don't plan on it. What else can you get other than an UTI from unprotected anal?

should I just get her to do an enema? will an enema reduce the risk to almost zero?

Thanks

 

well if she doesn't have any detectable STDs I say go for it bro, all doctors are against buttsex and will tell you ANYTHING to make you not have it.

Seriously, I had constipation and the doctor said that because I was gay maybe I should stop getting fucked in the ass.

They also told me ecstasy and weed could be causing my constipation

I don't trust doctors lol

 

Bacteria is not visible, and that's what passes the STDs.

As to whether you choose to take the risk of having unprotected sex, be it Anal or Vaginal, is totally up to you & your partner, but there is more than the matter of trust between the 2 of you, as it's not even a matter of you not being sexually active with anyone else, as it's plain that both of you are. Furthermore, from what you have said, it doesn't look as if either of you can be trusted, as you are both cheating on your full time partners - and who's to say that your partners also cheating?

 

The risk of UTI's is low for men. Having vaginal sex without cleaning will increae the chances of her having a UTI or other infection.

But, as pineman says, I'd be suspect of the safety of unprotected sex with anyone with another partner. She could be lying. She could be unaware of being infected. Her husband could be cheating and not telling her.

Oh, and to answer you question, I unprotected anal with my monogamous partner and have never had a uti.

 

I don't use condoms with my partner either... However we did get kinky and wear a condom once.

 

My wife and I have done anal without a condom a million times, and no issues here.

I'll tell you one thing: You'll cum in less than 2 minutes if you go without a condom.

 

Thanks Guys. Anyone else here can share their experience in doing anal with vs without condom?

I only did it with a condom and from my experience after 5 minutes and with lube, it feels just like fucking a pussy. my girls cums crazy but I take a while becuas i dont really feel much of the tightness and I also dont pound too hard becuase i dont want to hurt her.

 

I'm an older woman who has anal on a regular basis. My man and I average sex 16 times a month and we never wear a condom. Never had a problem. Sometimes it goes back in the vagina and I douche after.
As for being gentle-----pound her-she will love it if she likes anal.

 

Never even thought of wearing a condom! Half the fun of anal is my wifes tight, smooth asshole which you dont get 100% of the feeling of with a jimmy-cap. Granted, the tightness goes away a bit after a good, long session but thats expected. Still the best! A little residue here and there on my dick isnt a problem. I dont care at all.

Weve been doing regular anal for years and Ive never got a UTI. She doesnt do enemas either. Like your partner - taking a shit is my wifes enema. :2thumbsup:

Go bareback!!!!

 

:2thumbsup:

Taking a shit and cleaning up well is the best enema possible. I've actually never used a real enema unless you count a bidet (which I believe is the best, most effective, and easily the cleanest way to clean your heiny hole! =D

And yes, if you trust your partner - GO BAREBACK!!!
:2thumbsup:

 

Nice, thanks guys. She's coming over tomorrow and I'm going to try it without a rubber for the first time. I'm really excited. I'll update you guys on how it went. Thank you very much for sharing.

 

Hi Guys,

just to update you, she came over last night and I fucked her sweet ass without a condom, it was simply awesome, may better than with a condom, she likes it more too because she could feel my throbs more.

can't wait to do it again tonight.

Cheers

 

and the conspiracy behind this is?

 

Yes, so long as you trust her and that she is not having multiple partners (or both of you get tested), best to also douche as well if possible. But after anal you should wash your cock off before vaginal - not a good idea to pass bacteria from the anus to the vagina.

Simon

 

WTF! Why a condom, why an enima, why do it at all if you gotta do all that preparation. She likes it, you like it. For X's sake, dive right in and learn about spontanious sex. You sound sorta frilly. A little dipshit on your crank won't hurt anything! The doctor has to say that but man, you're missing a lot of fun

 

I've never worn a condom when having anal with my girlfriend. Actually, I wore one just one time. I'll tell you this: not wearing one will make you cum so much faster.

 

As everyone said, it's a pretty low chance of getting a uti for a guy but I don't agree with going with ass to vag because women can get them, my wife did back in the day. I've been doing anal with the wife now for 10+ years and her ass is still very tight and I've never gotten a uti.

It's not a bad idea to try and urinate after anal just to clear out any bacteria that might have gotten in there.

And yes, as the other poster said, you need to tear her ass up. Pound it, that's the only way to REALLY do anal. Once she gets nice and relaxed of course.

Her husband is weird for not wanting to get up in her butt, usually it's the other way around.

 

I never said there was a conspiracy, did you even read the rest of my post?

 

If I knew who you were you'd be dead.

You should consider yourself lucky....... I'm not joking... hahahaha.

 

This is the funniest shit I've ever read :rofl: