My boyfriend lost his confidence after losing a fight and it's affecting our sex life

Yeah, except that the OP sounds to me like a troll.

I have reason to believe --- due to the fictional language the OP employs, the username, and excessive simplicity of the story arc, even the convenient names of the protagonists (Brian and Steve) --- that the story and her sentiments are, at least partially, fabricated. I might be wrong, of course...

There's nothing wrong about being realistic, but we have to make sure what we're being realistic about is actually real. Haha! :biggrin:

 

So tell steve that you and he are going to service brian,as a reward for being the better man, steve can take his place on his knees like a little bitch should.

steve will either prepare for another bout or lick his lips at the opportunity to serve as a bitch for you and brian.

 

I think itd be funny if Brian sucked ass in bed too.. but maybe he could never be bad in bed to this girl (even with a 2 inch cock) cause shes all cavewoman for him.

 

lulz!

 

I expect a lot of straight guys to find the sentiment intimidating, very confronting though. Which is why you dont hear it expressed by the girls very often, probably also explains the lack of female responses.

So troll or no troll, by replying like that you end up sounding more like Steve than Brian

 

I'm not your bring the girlfriend along for security kind of straight guy. The presumption police are after you.

 

I think you hit the nail on the head here. My IQ dropped a few points just by reading this thread, and believe me, I don't have them to spare.

 

the dude burst out crying after cunnilingus because of the taste,not the defeat.....

 

K-Y jelly

 

I'm sorry if I came off as a little blunt, but I just wanted to get right to the point. I came to this forum asking for real answers from real woman. I'm just being honest about how I feel.

People can call me shallow but I don't really care. Sure you can say "Oh, I'd stick by my man no matter what" or whatever, but it's likely you've never been in this situation.

When a man steps into the ring they put everything on the line. Does it get us woman hot if we witness our man pummel someone else's into the ring's floor? Of course it does, I don't know of a woman who wouldn't get turned on by that, but what about the woman that has to see her man get pummeled? Do you think she feels the same way about the situation. She didn't show up because she thought her man was going to lose, she's obviously pretty devastated about having her illusions crushed. Her strong, proud, alpha-male, the one that used to absolutely ravish her in bed, is now laying motionless in the ring for in a pool of blood. Imagine he doesn't have the strength to get up and has to be carried out of the ring (like my boyfriend).

I can tolerate a loss, but the way my boyfriend went out in that fight was just embarrassing. How can you respect a guy who can't even defend himself to the extent of at least putting up somewhat of a fight?

 

If this story is true (which I wont even bother to get into why I agree it likely isn't...) dump the guy...

Nothing to do with some people's theories about cavemen and such... but for a simpler, more straight forward reason...

If you are so fucking stupid that you would enter into a MMA match and think that your chances of winning are so great that you can't even concieve of loosing, then break down and weep like a little bitch about loosing... Then you have so many person issues to deal with that it will be years before you are capable of having anything that even approaches a real relationship...

In terms of the OP... the bf should dump her ass if she doesn't dump his...

For another very simple reason... Right or wrong, the op obviously believes that physcial prowess in a ring is some measure of a person's worth and in her eyes, the bf is now useless (according to her though)... A person like that, will lead to nothing but a life of bullshit, drama and headgames....

Now, forgetting about all of that... and getting back to the guy's entering things like mma matches... if loosing is going to turn you into a little bitch (nothing to do with gender issues)... then don't fucking sign up for them... lol

 

Oh, about the same way we could (or in this case, couldn't) respect someone like you.

:sunny:

 

Let him come to your rescue afew times. Show him that you need him. It can be as simple as hunny can you open this jar for me. But just make him feel like a man. "I can't carry this but you're strong would you mind helping me". Eventually if you boost his ego he'll feel more himself. Then he'll be back to his old dependable sexually satisfying self. Be supportive.

 

For the record, I used to/still seldom do MMA training. I used to be a big fan of Krav Maga (but also attened a fair share of Muay Tai classes, also) before instead switching to general boxing.

The fact he got 'beaten up' has nothing to do with how strong he is. It's really quite a tactical sport. For instance, my Krav Maga instructor was short and had a small frame but he could kick anyones ass because he read the situation well.

Your boyfriend may have just been crap at the sport. Because that is what it is, it's not a pub fight. The OP is sort of insinuating it's just brut violence.

 

These stories start off believable then just get stupid. You shouted Brian take me? SUCH A PILE OF CRAP!!

 

your man is all butthurt and shit. typical of those mma pussies.

you need to stop faking orgasms, that never helps anyone.

 

:lurk5:

LOLing at the straight guy bitchfest

 

oh, and you're a whore too. he should quit fighting and dump your ass.

 

Best quote of the thread.

 

let your boyfriend beat you up so he can see that he can still woop some ass. then fuck him for kicking your ass. you will have the best most painful sex ever.