All the girls I knew from highschool are posting pics of their kids on facebook, which makes other girls feel insecure and y'know what happens... My last, well my only girlfriend insisted on having sex without a condom and it was so freakin obvious what she was up to I just sort of stopped talking to her, since I was clear I didn't want a kid. I'm sooo sketched out right now, I don't have a car, every muscle I have aches from riding my bike all day, I have no sleep pattern or bodily regularity of any kind. I'm terrified of all the maternity-minded females.
Since highschool graduation more women in my class have had children than kept a loyal partnership (from what i have heard from a few friends over the years). It seems like a fucking competition to have children. Most of these women come from broken house's and can hardly afford themselves, yet want to bring a child into the world born poor. I hear the same shit with people 5-10 years older than myself, makes me sick.
The fact that she will try and get a child out of you without discussing it first is pretty sleezy. Unless she just likes the feeling of banging without a rubber.
the worst part of that is when they dump the kids on to you to raise them because, they don't have the skills to raise the kids themselves. my sister dumped her two kids on to me. no one else in my "family" step up to the plate. i turn 54 years old next month. i never wanted to have kids and, i never did. i never married either. after what i lived through growing up with my so called "parents," who in their right mind would want to get married or have kids? i was just too goddamn scared shitless of fucking up my kids lives BIG TIME!
I don't understand the girls who want babies so desperately at all. I mean, I have that natural longing for a baby sometimes, but I have a damn brain in my head and know I'm in no situation financially or maturity-wise to have a little one to take care of. I'm in a very serious relationship, I'm practically married, I'm just not ready to have kids yet. I feel like time is tick tick ticking away, but I'd rather give birth at 85 and be able to give my kids the life they deserve than get knocked up now and live off of the American taxpayers.
The problem of teenage pregnancy levels is not just combined to your side of the Atlantic. And then too many kids grow up without knowing their dad, or him taking any responsibility.
Girls are like dominos with babies, one has one and they all do. It's when they watch their friend change a crap filled nappy that they tend to change their mind- it's quite funny.
man i know what you mean! i graduated 06' and alot of the girls have kids, and a good 50% arent in relationships anymore, i dont understand why they want bastard kids so badly and most arent financially stable enough to support everything they need. 20 is too young in my opinion. i think 26-30 is a good age. But once experience i had was having sex with a girl(using protection) then her saying halfway through, take the condom off i dont care if i get pregnant and i wont hold you accountable. BULLSHIT, dude i quit right there and told her to get out, girls like that would take a rubber out of a trashcan and squeeze it in. crazy
