Do Straight Guys Like This?

My thanks to those of you who responded to the questions I asked after learning that my boyfriend and his buddies used to get together for circle jerks. Since some of you thought it was okay and others felt it wasn't I'm still not sure whether he's straight or gay -- and then something happened this afternoon that only added to my confusion.

We went out jogging and when we got back home we couldn't wait to shower so rather than take turns we decided to shower together. We behaved ourselves for a while but that didn't last very long. I admit -- I was one who got naughty first. Okay -- shame on me but I've never been able to pass up an opportunity to have fun. Girls reading this will understand when I say that you can't share a shower with a super buff guy and be expected to keep your hands to yourself. Let's just say I played rub-a-dub-dub with his privates and leave it at that. This resulted in him getting a stiffy like you wouldn't believe which I found hilarious and he found frustrating. He kidded me about it being my fault that he was in this predicament and asked that I quit giggling and do something about it,

I laughed and said I'd try so I got my hands good and soapy and started stroking him but it was sort of awkward with him facing me so I got behind him and reached around and found it much easier. I did my best to pump him the way I'd seen him do a few nights before and I must've done it right because I didn't hear any complaints.

Now then -- how to describe (without getting too graphic) what I did with my other hand. I ran it up and down the crack between his buttocks and I could tell he really enjoyed this. Then my middle finger located his tight little hole and I slipped it in. I didn't stick it in all the way but I could tell he wanted more of it because he reached back and spread his cheeks apart to provide easy access so I slid it in a little farther. You should've heard him ooh and aah. (To say he found the sensation incredibly pleasurable would be a major understatement.) After pulling my finger out and slipping it back in a few times I pushed it in as far as I could and wiggled it around and when I did this he started squirting like crazy. It was as if I'd pressed his LAUNCH button. When he finally finished coming he thanked me over and over again for doing him this way. You've never seen anyone so grateful.

Knowing this -- I trust you see why I can't help but wonder if maybe he's gay.

 

"It was as if I'd pressed his LAUNCH button."

Lol, it's not as if you pressed the button, you DID PRESS THE BUTTON. It feels extremely good for most men to have their prostates massaged, it doesn't matter what their sexual orientation is. I suggest that you do some research on prostate massages and the feelings men get for them. I'm sure many straight men do enjoy this, as a gay man I know I do. The prostate is the male equivalent to the.... whatever that thing women have is.

I wouldn't be too worried about it, as long as you don't catch him having gay sex or getting off to gay porn. A certain level of suspicion is always good, but I think you're being just a bit too paranoid. Please don't take that as an insult, take it as my advice to just let him enjoy what gets him off and make him do the same for you.

 

That is definately NOT a gay trait, its a MALE trait. It sounds like you were massaging his prostate which gives guys a more intense / deeper orgasm.
I am 100% straight and I never pass up the opportunity for a prostate massage.
If you go to the thread "What makes you orgasm the hardest" (its called something like that).
I cum the hardest when a chick sticks her tongue in my ass, while she is cranking me off!



Did I say that out loud?

:leaving:

 

Oh my. I wonder if The Dick will let me try this. hmm... haha

 

He's not gay in my opinion. He's having sex with you after all. This is why more men don't admit to liking anal stimulation -- they're afraid their girlfriend or wife will think they're gay or a sicko. I've read stuff all over the net about guys looking for women (not men, they are very clear about that) who will rim them, finger them, or fuck them with a strap on.

 

Ah yes, the ol' Rusty Trombone.

 

I agree with The Lone Wolf most girls would think you're gay if you suggest they pay some attention to your ass,and there's the fear of rejection.I don't think he's gay either.It's a turn on it gets you off,that's all.Gay/Straight/Bi it's all the same when it comes to this,although not everyone's into anal play.I'd think you're being a little paranoid.He could be Bi or corious If he circle jerks with his friends I dunno it's not something I'd worry too much about.Could you talk to him about it?

 

Gay-------hell I do not know, but I would have loved that and I am not gay........maybe bi but...oh hell I do not know, but you made me hard!

 

There's no such thing as Gay or Straight in sexuality. It's all just varying degrees of Bi.

We all have differing balances of male & female hormones in each of us.

Even those that might consider themselves to be totally straight will frequently find themselves fantasising over having sex with someone of the same gender as themselves, and even getting concerned over the fact that they are having such fantasies.

 

Definately not gay i know loads of people who would let a girl do stuff to there asses but not men , so i wouldn`t worry as long as he is into you im pretty sure he`s not gay and if he is bi then again not to worry he is with you isnt he!

 

Who can in all honesty say this from him/herself? Nobody is 100% straight IMHO. We are on a scale from 1 to 100 with different varieties. So you're not automatically 'bi' when you like being rimmed/anally stimulated. :rmoon2: Some straight guy wil love it, some gays will not. Those nasty old fashioned labels are still very very sticky.

 

Basically, just like a female has a G-Spot, a guy has a G-Spot too lol.

 

Wow, Hl2e1 is your username? That's the videogame I was playing earlier this afternoon.

 

No that's not his usename, HE IS the videogame you were playing earlier. You know, even videogames have a life after hours.

 

so true........... and as for prostate massage - it's great, we all enjoy a couple of fingers in the back end, if not something else, nothing to do with being gay.

Simon

 

Here's the thing. I've looked up the subject posts for circle jerks and the series of posts the OP did here and there are at least 3 on here with identical wording by 3 "Different People". Given that and this thread is old as dirt I can't believe that a troll thread is being resurrected. Especially one that nearly every sex advice columnist does a special on every 6 months since the get at least 5 letters a week asking this same question.

As for the question posed by the original poster. He is only gay if he insists on calling you George while you are doing it.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

I would say its not necessarily a gay thing to get it done...I know plenty of straight guys who say they let their girls do it on them, but I personally don't like my asshole touched...my wife has said she wants to do it, but I won't allow it.

 

i cannot even fathom sticking my finger, let alone my tongue, in my husband's ass. i'm laughing my ass off over here just imagining it hahaha.
that said... i seriously doubt he's gay.

 

did it suck a little when you slipped it in?

I can't really think of anyone I trust like that to be fingerbanging my anus while jerking me off in the shower. Just doesn't really seem like anything I would want to expose to most of the people in my life, thus I will speak for all straight men and state plainly, No, straight guys do not like that. What would my mother think.

 

Would definitely not do anything like that with any dudes, not against people that do it, it's just not my thing.