i recently just got out of a 5 year relationship. He was my first at everything as I was to him. I remember feeling so lucky that i have only slept with one guy all through high school, as there were shit loads of hoochies running around with their legs spread open. But now, i feel that its my turn to have fun!! i see a guy and i think how fun it would be to have wild sex with him. Im not looking for a relationship at all, but just want to have some fun. Part of me is saying that is is trashy and only sluts would do this type of shit, but also i feel taht since im only 21 i should have fun and enjoy every minute of it. I lost my virginity in a very loving and romantic manner, and i feel very fortunate. Im feeling now that ive had sex, been there done that, whats the big deal now.
I don't think there is anything wrong with having a few quick flings, as long as it is done safely...you can have fun and have sex and not be a trashy slut.
exactly... I mean, it's nice to have a deep, meaningful relationship. But you gotta have some fun inbetween! Just make sure you use condoms, and be sure they aren't some crazy psycho person (well, as sure as you can be) before you go off alone with 'em!
thats the response i was hoping for... and trust me... those dicks will be wrapped up!! my health always comes first!! so good... glad to see im thinking normaly and not the only one... HORRAY FOR SEX!!!
I think that you might have felt trashy because of cultural indoctination. American culture has puritanical roots, and we are often taught to be ashamed of our sexuality. This comes in direct conflict with our human nature. Humans love sex! It's fun! It's natural! If anyone denys that, they deny their nature. I say don't feel trashy, and don't listen to a society that thinks they know you better than you know yourself. To hell with the 'moral majority!' Thay have no business trying to enforce their morality on you. Go ahead and have your safe fun! Think about how much happier the world would be if we weren't taught to be ashamed of sex!
true words of wisdom GodlessVegetarian!!! thank you so much for your input, truly awakened my eyes to this situation of mine.
keep them closed untill you find someone who will treat you right. You can't regret not having sex but you can regret having it.
Whatever is right for you I guess. I don't have any major issues with others who are into the casual sex thing, its just never really been my thing.
