i got it yesterday and have used it only a few times so far (i'll definitely be using it ALOT tho if i like it) but my boyfriends worried that it's gonna stretch me out? i know a vagina is a muscle and all that and i'm aware of the fact it goes back to normal size after a day or so of having sex but i'm on of the rare (but incredibly sexy and gifted) women that has a slightly longer labia minora. when i put the vibrator in it's actually kind of painful when i put it in.. ive never experienced this during sex. it might just because it's not lubed up enough, i haevn't had much time yet to really be alone and get myself wet. i feel like it might be stretching out my labia and i don't really want it to ;\
lol be gentle, use lube or warm up first, you won't get stretched out, unless you're using a vibrator the size of your arm.
Curiously, most women I've known have preferred to keep their vibrators purely for Clitoral stimulation, whilst only using dildos for Vaginal penetration - at least when it comes to masturbation, that is.
noo i mean like is it going to stretch my LABIA out at all? because i feel like it pulls on it alittle sometimes and i'd rather not have it any bigger hahaa.
LOL well ... If it needs to be expressed in horsepower and has a pull-to-start rope, then I'm going to say perhaps ... yes. Otherwise, vaginas are VERY stretchy For some reason, people think it's like erosion. Tightness is really a muscular function. So from THAT standpoint (in my opinion), regular use of these devices will help IMPROVE the muscular tone, and therefor add to the tightness.
The Hitachi Magic Wand was not meant for insertion. Look for the model you bought online and make sure that it was meant to be inserted before inserting. Stay Brown, Rev J
I think your boyfriend is more worried about getting replaced rather than whether its going to "stretch you out" or not
Yeah your boyfriend is scared of being replaced..as a man I admit we cannot compete with a battery operated device as far a stamina..lol..but anyway tell him to relax unless he does not get you off ,and the vibrator does the job better, which it will I imagine ,as far as keeps on going and going like the energizer bunny, dudes need us some Lithium power sometimes to keep going like that damn rabbit..lol
I bought my first wife a vibrator, and she got completely addicted to the damned thing (she never inserted it, though). Night and day, all I heard was 'bzzzzzz'. She got to where she was pretty uninterested in me-as long as she had a fresh set of batteries, she was fine! From now on, for valentine's day, my girl's getting candy!
I once had a girlfriend that used to increase the amount of sex she wanted when a PAP test was approaching. Said it made it easier. So in that case it would stretch it a bit. But I never noticed anything different day to day.