i've never orgasmed during sex, only masturbating. i think i've come really close though. everytime i feel like i'm getting close, the feeling is sooo intense that idk if i'm scared or what, but i tell my boyfriend to stop. yesterday it was during penetration with me on the bottom and it didn't exactly feel like i had to pee like it does when he is fingering my g-spot, but it just felt REALLY intense like i can't explain it, i was making ALOT of noise and we had to be quiet so that was part of the reason i wanted him to stop and that's the only reason he did.. he told me i was about to orgasm but i don't know? that's not how it feels like before i orgasm during masturbation? is clitoral orgasm feel different from a vaginal orgasm? how do i know if i was about to? i think i just need to let go, relax, and let myself cum. what do you guys think? btw i haven't had sex with very many people and actually enjoyed it. the guy i'm with now is probably the first who i really have enjoyed it with.
women's o's are the most confusing thing to me. But I know my wife's are different for oral to intercourse
A clitoral orgasm is a lot different than a vaginal one. If you have the sensation like you're about to pee, then it's very possible you were about to orgasm. Don't deny yourself such a wonderful feeling, girl! Let loose and let the guy finish!!!
I can't have a strictly g-spot orgasm. I can have strictly clitoral or a combo but always always 100% of the time need clitoral stimulation to climax. If I'm only getting fingered or doing doggie, it will stimulate the g-spot and it will build and build until I can't stand it, then the feeling will just cap off and diminish. I then get blue clit. Sounds like you are the same, add the clit stimulation and relax and you will get off. This is why, although it's boring, missionary is the only position I can get off without rubbing my own clit because our groins grind together so my clit is being rubbed simultaneously. Any other position and I have to add the manual stim. Cunnilingus is also no problem.
This is the first time in my life I've heard the term "blue clit". Congratulations SB for turning me onto this terminology. I can probably gather as to what it means but let's hope its more unfulfilling or something and not physically painful like its male equivalent.
Ahem... Blue Clit© copyright of SweetBlasphemy. I will be collecting royalties from everyone who uses the term from here on out. It's a little painful, it literally feels like the clit/area is turning... sour. Since I have never owned a set of balls, I couldn't tell you which is more painful by comparison. I know men tend to be whiners regarding pain in that area (and every other area of the body, every cold, sniffle, headache, etc ) so they may just be being dramatic or maybe it is legitimately more painful. It's not pleasant either way.
Yoou sound like you were very close. The first time I experienced a g-spot orgasm, I though I pee'd the bed.. Just focus more on the moment, and relax, and it should come easier.
Painful? dude, how do you let yourself go without sex until it is PAINFUL? wow lol i usually just beat it at that point
